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ruinedandbroken (original poster member #29250) posted at 10:35 PM on Wednesday, July 9th, 2014
Apparently they were at a BAR playing BAR trivia.
Oh how I just LOVE when they have summer visitation with their idiot father.
NOT! 
“People who cheat feel that life is for the taking, and that everyone deserves happiness no matter what the cost. I must remember these tricks if I ever have my soul surgically removed."
Me: BS 42. Him: WH 41 2 Kids 8&11
Married 14 yrs Together 21
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 10:46 PM on Wednesday, July 9th, 2014
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 11:01 PM on Wednesday, July 9th, 2014
(((ruined & kids)))
I would be severely po'd. Years back my xbil and his new gf (not an ow) took my young nephew to a bar. They were too drunk to drive home. So instead of getting a cab, they walked home through a bad area.
Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 11:44 PM on Wednesday, July 9th, 2014
IDK. I wouldn't get too cheesed about this. There are lots of sports bars, etc that bill themselves as restaurants, do have varying degrees of palatable food, and trivia isn't such a bad diversion.
I grew up in a bar. A neighbor shot & beer dive. I survived and thrived. DS has been in bars since he was a baby. His grandfather's and where the X worked. That was REALLY a dive, your basic bucket of blood, but only during the daytime.
You need to pick your battles carefully, otherwise life will he impossible.
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
ruinedandbroken (original poster member #29250) posted at 12:32 AM on Thursday, July 10th, 2014
No, I have no plans to fight any battles about this. He wouldn't listen to me anyway. I'm just venting here.
I don't think it's appropriate for a 7 and 10 year old to be at a bar around people drinking and cursing. I know the bar they were at and the type of crowd that is in there. There are plenty of other kid friendly things they could have done.
“People who cheat feel that life is for the taking, and that everyone deserves happiness no matter what the cost. I must remember these tricks if I ever have my soul surgically removed."
Me: BS 42. Him: WH 41 2 Kids 8&11
Married 14 yrs Together 21
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