[This message edited by HurtingandLost at 11:05 PM, July 9th (Wednesday)]
You're not an asshole. Four years is a long time. You tried. it wasn't wasted time, it was time spent trying. Now you know.
Now she can deal with it.
Isn't it ironic that she said she wanted a D, so you provided the means for that to occur, and now she's pissed?
Yeah. You're in a no win situation dude.
Watch out for yourself and yourself, only. (unless you have kids...)
[This message edited by nekorb at 11:13 PM, July 9th (Wednesday)]
And, go Packers and Badgers! (I'm also in WI)
She wasted the gift of R, she wasted 4 years, she and her lack of actions are hurting you and your children. It's all on her. Free yourself from self blame you did your best, and she didn't.
Took a while, but I like the me I am, without him