Just got back from court. I thought I would be divorced today, but fuckwhad X is accusing me of financial mismanagement and her life insurance is holding everything up. Since she has cancer she is trying to control how the insurance will be used if she passes. Originally it was her mother would be the trustee. Then her AP. Her cousin didn't want anything to do with it (one family member with her head on straight). Then it was she wants part of it to go to her parents, and her brother. She really cares about the kids, doesn't she.
It's frustrating that I had to stand there and be accused of mismanagement, when it was she who threatened to divorce me if I didn't adopt a child with her (after I told her it would be financially difficult for us). It was she who wanted the 25k car instead of something less expensive. It is she who has her AP taking out all of his assets and putting it into a house for them. And I'm the one mismanaging? Gaaaaaaah. I want to be divorced!