Recently, I was told that my ex's OW wanted to go to my kids' events with my ex. He refused to let her. He said that he was a crappy husband, so the least he could do is try to be a good ex-husband. He insisted, "I won't do that to Harriet."
He was a truly crappy husband. And I think he tries to be a decent ex, although he misses the mark a lot. Not sure how to feel about that. Thankful? Not really. I guess I just hope he keeps it up - he would like us to be friends but that's not going to happen.
Too little too late, I suppose is what sums it up.