This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man ~ Shakespeare, Hamlet
me BS 52
him - 46
married 15 years DIVORCED 10 31 12
children - ds15 ds12
I gave a 24hour ultimatum then went to attorney next day
It is what it is.
Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron
It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling
Besides the fact that she is a HS graduate and will presumable be 18 and of legal age within the next 12 months (unless you have found a way to keep kids frozen in time....) So she can make decisions on her own without any input for idiot.
If it wasn't a total waste of oxygen then you might suggest that he actually TALK to his child about her desired direction in life and express any concerns he may have directly to his virtually-adult DD. But I know that logic makes no difference to morons like him so why waste your breathe. Easier on his low mental capacity to blame you.
you might suggest that he actually TALK to his child about her desired direction in life and express any concerns he may have directly to his virtually-adult DD.
Except that DD has gone NC on his sorry ass! She gives crickets any of the rare times he tries to contact her.
She will be 18 in three months, but that escapes him as well.
He did the same with DS when DS wanted to enlist at 17, TWO months before he both graduated and turned 18. We got in a big argument back then as well.
I think it is part of his control freak issues, and he HATES not having ultimate control. Nah, he's just a simple idiot...
[This message edited by Phoenix1 at 12:08 AM, July 11th (Friday)]