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Phoenix1 posted 7/10/2014 22:31 PM

So XPOS found out that I signed off with parental consent for DD17 to enlist in the Coast Guard. He threw a major mantrum and argued that he needed to be informed first, he needed to also sign off, etc. He knew she was considering it, and was okay with that, but didn't know she took the leap. I had to remind him to read our D decree again and pay very close attention to the part where it lists me as sole legal and physical parent. Though I was tempted to add, maybe it would help to get someone to interpret that for you, but chose to leave off the snarly ending. The butt-hurt look on his face was quite priceless, and a surprise, like somehow he forgot about those little legal technicalities...

homewrecked2011 posted 7/10/2014 22:36 PM

They r legends in their own minds,,, thinking they r superior to us. Nice when reality hits them in between the eyes.

peridot posted 7/10/2014 23:11 PM

Lol

persevere posted 7/10/2014 23:36 PM

So sad that the king in his own mind had to deal with reality...

Dreamboat posted 7/10/2014 23:50 PM

What a moron. Aside from the fact that you have sole legal custody, your DD is 17. Does anyone really think that you can tell a 17 yr old what to do or not do??

Besides the fact that she is a HS graduate and will presumable be 18 and of legal age within the next 12 months (unless you have found a way to keep kids frozen in time....) So she can make decisions on her own without any input for idiot.

If it wasn't a total waste of oxygen then you might suggest that he actually TALK to his child about her desired direction in life and express any concerns he may have directly to his virtually-adult DD. But I know that logic makes no difference to morons like him so why waste your breathe. Easier on his low mental capacity to blame you.

(((hugs)))

Phoenix1 posted 7/11/2014 00:08 AM

you might suggest that he actually TALK to his child about her desired direction in life and express any concerns he may have directly to his virtually-adult DD.

Except that DD has gone NC on his sorry ass! She gives crickets any of the rare times he tries to contact her.

She will be 18 in three months, but that escapes him as well.

He did the same with DS when DS wanted to enlist at 17, TWO months before he both graduated and turned 18. We got in a big argument back then as well.

I think it is part of his control freak issues, and he HATES not having ultimate control. Nah, he's just a simple idiot...

[This message edited by Phoenix1 at 12:08 AM, July 11th (Friday)]

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