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sunsetslost (original poster member #39885) posted at 2:22 PM on Friday, July 11th, 2014
As I type this STBX is in court. It's just a matter of a judge's signature. I'm not sure how I feel. It's not the celebration, not really any relief, just some negative energy and a little more grief. 363 days since d day. What a year. I never wanted this.
I'm going on a fishing binge, I mean trip with some old friends this weekend. I'm working hard to get centered and present before I go. I'll get there.
I don't know if I'll get word when it's all done. I may just switch the phone off.
Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 2:38 PM on Friday, July 11th, 2014
((((sunsets)))) I vote for phone off. Enjoy your trip. 
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
MovingUpward ( member #14866) posted at 2:44 PM on Friday, July 11th, 2014
I understand the mixed emotions. My D finalizing left me feeling the same way. Enjoy your trip and focus on living in the moment right now.
BAMAC ( member #39334) posted at 2:49 PM on Friday, July 11th, 2014
I feel you, sunsets. Mine happened yesterday, and I got super emotional. I'm still not really sure how I feel about it. Mostly sad I think, because this was never supposed to happen.
DDays - 1/26/2013 | 3/23/14
Divorced 7/10/2014
SBB ( member #35229) posted at 3:33 PM on Friday, July 11th, 2014
Whatever you're feeling in whatever order is completely normal.
I vote phone off too. Be free on your trip.
((sunsetslost)
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
norabird ( member #42092) posted at 4:05 PM on Friday, July 11th, 2014
(((sunsetslost)))
I am glad you have something planned this weekend. Enjoy it as much if you can, and if at some points you feel down, that's okay too.
You got this.
sunsetslost (original poster member #39885) posted at 5:44 PM on Friday, July 11th, 2014
Thanks all. The texts are pouring in fast and furious from the idiots I'm going fishing with. Giddy would describe the mood. I'm getting swept up in that emotion I told them I watched the Jaws marathon on AMC yesterday so I'm ready if that happens. 
Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.
kiki1 ( member #37184) posted at 5:51 PM on Friday, July 11th, 2014
(((sunsetslost)))
Make it a great trip!!!!
WeepingBuddhist ( member #39139) posted at 6:00 PM on Friday, July 11th, 2014
Have a great time on your trip and save checking the messages for when you return.
Me: BS 46
Him: unimportant
D Day:4-27-13
DIVORCED!!! 2-20-14
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 6:02 PM on Friday, July 11th, 2014
watched the Jaws marathon on AMC yesterday so I'm ready if that happens.
Whatever comes of your fishing expedition, just remember - pictures or it DIDN'T happen. 
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
SBB ( member #35229) posted at 6:09 PM on Friday, July 11th, 2014
^^ 
I'm Aussie - sharks aren't as scary as the teeny tiny jellyfish. http://www.irukandjijellyfish.com
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 6:45 PM on Friday, July 11th, 2014
Sunsets,
Sounds like your getting in the head space to enjoy your friends..
Pics would be nice. 😎
K
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
FrmrBH80124 ( member #42967) posted at 8:36 PM on Friday, July 11th, 2014
Peace sunsets!
Have a great fishing trip!
No hurricanes on the horizon so it should be smooth sailing..
ME - BH 45
Her - XWS 30
D - April 2010 - never looked back and good riddance.
Happily remarried!
Though much is taken, much abides; and though we are not now that strength which in old days
moved earth and heaven, that which we are,
dmari ( member #37215) posted at 8:58 PM on Friday, July 11th, 2014
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