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sunsetslost posted 7/11/2014 08:22 AM

As I type this STBX is in court. It's just a matter of a judge's signature. I'm not sure how I feel. It's not the celebration, not really any relief, just some negative energy and a little more grief. 363 days since d day. What a year. I never wanted this.

I'm going on a fishing binge, I mean trip with some old friends this weekend. I'm working hard to get centered and present before I go. I'll get there.

I don't know if I'll get word when it's all done. I may just switch the phone off.

nowiknow23 posted 7/11/2014 08:38 AM

((((sunsets)))) I vote for phone off. Enjoy your trip.

MovingUpward posted 7/11/2014 08:44 AM

I understand the mixed emotions. My D finalizing left me feeling the same way. Enjoy your trip and focus on living in the moment right now.

BAMAC posted 7/11/2014 08:49 AM

I feel you, sunsets. Mine happened yesterday, and I got super emotional. I'm still not really sure how I feel about it. Mostly sad I think, because this was never supposed to happen.

SBB posted 7/11/2014 09:33 AM

Whatever you're feeling in whatever order is completely normal.

I vote phone off too. Be free on your trip.


norabird posted 7/11/2014 10:05 AM


I am glad you have something planned this weekend. Enjoy it as much if you can, and if at some points you feel down, that's okay too.

You got this.

sunsetslost posted 7/11/2014 11:44 AM

Thanks all. The texts are pouring in fast and furious from the idiots I'm going fishing with. Giddy would describe the mood. I'm getting swept up in that emotion I told them I watched the Jaws marathon on AMC yesterday so I'm ready if that happens.

kiki1 posted 7/11/2014 11:51 AM


Make it a great trip!!!!

WeepingBuddhist posted 7/11/2014 12:00 PM

Have a great time on your trip and save checking the messages for when you return.

nowiknow23 posted 7/11/2014 12:02 PM

watched the Jaws marathon on AMC yesterday so I'm ready if that happens.
Whatever comes of your fishing expedition, just remember - pictures or it DIDN'T happen.

SBB posted 7/11/2014 12:09 PM


I'm Aussie - sharks aren't as scary as the teeny tiny jellyfish.

Kajem posted 7/11/2014 12:45 PM


Sounds like your getting in the head space to enjoy your friends..

Pics would be nice. 😎


FrmrBH80124 posted 7/11/2014 14:36 PM

Peace sunsets!

Have a great fishing trip!

No hurricanes on the horizon so it should be smooth sailing..

dmari posted 7/11/2014 14:58 PM


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