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Topic: This is it
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sunsetslost
♂ 39885
Member # 39885 |  Posted: 8:22 AM, July 11th (Friday), 2014 |     |
As I type this STBX is in court. It's just a matter of a judge's signature. I'm not sure how I feel. It's not the celebration, not really any relief, just some negative energy and a little more grief. 363 days since d day. What a year. I never wanted this.
I'm going on a fishing binge, I mean trip with some old friends this weekend. I'm working hard to get centered and present before I go. I'll get there.
I don't know if I'll get word when it's all done. I may just switch the phone off.
Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.
Posts: 793 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: The beach. |
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226 | | Posted: 8:38 AM, July 11th (Friday), 2014 | |
((((sunsets)))) I vote for phone off. Enjoy your trip. 
You can call me NIK
“The most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves.”
― Pema Chödrön
Posts: 28242 | Registered: Aug 2011 |
MovingUpward
♂ 14866
Member # 14866 | | Posted: 8:44 AM, July 11th (Friday), 2014 | |
I understand the mixed emotions. My D finalizing left me feeling the same way. Enjoy your trip and focus on living in the moment right now.
AKA Moo
Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless
We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.
Posts: 53970 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation |
BAMAC
♂ 39334
Member # 39334 | | Posted: 8:49 AM, July 11th (Friday), 2014 | |
I feel you, sunsets. Mine happened yesterday, and I got super emotional. I'm still not really sure how I feel about it. Mostly sad I think, because this was never supposed to happen.
DDays - 1/26/2013 | 3/23/14
Divorced 7/10/2014
Posts: 84 | Registered: May 2013 | From: TX |
SBB
♀ 35229
Member # 35229 | | Posted: 9:33 AM, July 11th (Friday), 2014 | |
Whatever you're feeling in whatever order is completely normal.
I vote phone off too. Be free on your trip.
((sunsetslost)
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
Posts: 5841 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia |
norabird
♀ 42092
Member # 42092 | | Posted: 10:05 AM, July 11th (Friday), 2014 | |
(((sunsetslost)))
I am glad you have something planned this weekend. Enjoy it as much if you can, and if at some points you feel down, that's okay too.
You got this.
Sit. Feast on your life.
Posts: 4280 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC |
sunsetslost
♂ 39885
Member # 39885 | | Posted: 11:44 AM, July 11th (Friday), 2014 | |
Thanks all. The texts are pouring in fast and furious from the idiots I'm going fishing with. Giddy would describe the mood. I'm getting swept up in that emotion I told them I watched the Jaws marathon on AMC yesterday so I'm ready if that happens. 
Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.
Posts: 793 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: The beach. |
kiki1
♀ 37184
Member # 37184 | | Posted: 11:51 AM, July 11th (Friday), 2014 | |
(((sunsetslost)))
Make it a great trip!!!!
Posts: 787 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: new york |
WeepingBuddhist
♀ 39139
Member # 39139 | | Posted: 12:00 PM, July 11th (Friday), 2014 | |
Have a great time on your trip and save checking the messages for when you return.
Me: BS 46
Him: unimportant
D Day:4-27-13
DIVORCED!!! 2-20-14
Posts: 735 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Columbus |
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226 | | Posted: 12:02 PM, July 11th (Friday), 2014 | |
watched the Jaws marathon on AMC yesterday so I'm ready if that happens. Whatever comes of your fishing expedition, just remember - pictures or it DIDN'T happen. 
You can call me NIK
“The most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves.”
― Pema Chödrön
Posts: 28242 | Registered: Aug 2011 |
SBB
♀ 35229
Member # 35229 | | Posted: 12:09 PM, July 11th (Friday), 2014 | |
^^ 
I'm Aussie - sharks aren't as scary as the teeny tiny jellyfish. http://www.irukandjijellyfish.com
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
Posts: 5841 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia |
Kajem
♀ 36134
Member # 36134 | | Posted: 12:45 PM, July 11th (Friday), 2014 | |
Sunsets,
Sounds like your getting in the head space to enjoy your friends..
Pics would be nice. 😎
K
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
Posts: 6035 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida |
FrmrBH80124
♂ 42967
Member # 42967 | | Posted: 2:36 PM, July 11th (Friday), 2014 | |
Peace sunsets!
Have a great fishing trip!
No hurricanes on the horizon so it should be smooth sailing..
ME - BH 45
Her - XWS 30
D - April 2010 - never looked back and good riddance.
Happily remarried!
Though much is taken, much abides; and though we are not now that strength which in old days
moved earth and heaven, that which we are, we are
Posts: 204 | Registered: Apr 2014 |
dmari
♀ 37215
Member # 37215 | | Posted: 2:58 PM, July 11th (Friday), 2014 | |
(((((sunsetslost)))))
Me (BS): 43 Children: DD 19, DS 16
Divorced September 30, 2014
"It's always darkest before the dawn ..."
Posts: 2460 | Registered: Oct 2012 |
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