Hi, I'm new to the R forum. My D-day was just 2 days ago when I busted WH with a keylogger soliciting men for oral sex.
This is not the first D-day that I've had but it is the first one where I didn't "rugsweep". I called a divorce attorney and planned on meeting with them today but have since cancelled.
My WH and I went to an emergency MC session yesterday, our first one ever. He agreed to all of the terms counselor and I set for him. No internet until after the boys go to bed and I must be with him, no shopping on his own, no giving rides to co-workers, and NO porn.
I do think WH is remorseful. He's no longer claiming that it wasn't cheating and blaming it on me. He blames himself and does believe he has an addiction and is hoping the MC will help him. Hopefully we truly R this time.