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User Topic: first night of separation
♂ 29322
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Default  Posted: 10:36 PM, July 12th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

She left this morning said she'd be back tomorrow night it was my weekend with the kids. Awesome! The living room is actually accessible with her shit picked up and her blankets and crap off the couch. Kids helped me clean up and prep the master for paint, and afterwards helped me clean everything up and put things away. My 8 year old screwed all the wall plates back in which was cool to watch. Then they rode their bikes and scooters for awhile until it started raining. I was able to drop off a few bags of her shit at the goodwill, cook a good dinner for the kids and now I'm kicking back relaxing. I could get used to this!

[This message edited by HurtingandLost at 10:39 PM, July 12th (Saturday)]

37 fBH
Sons 17 and 9 Daughters 12, 8, 6.
Ex#1 and Ex#2 both cheated

Rediscovering Life. It may not be a bed of roses but at least I don't smell like dog$h!t

Posts: 1430 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: MidWest
♂ 14866
Member # 14866
Default  Posted: 11:41 PM, July 12th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Glad that you and kids enjoyed your evening.


Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.

Posts: 54302 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
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Default  Posted: 11:46 PM, July 12th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's amazing how much time is left for just doing things with your kids when the drama leaves.

"Better not give in to it. It takes ten times as long to put yourself back together as it does to fall apart.”
― Suzanne Collins, Mockingjay

Double Betrayal D-Day 7/26/2013
Divorced 11/18/2014

Posts: 2695 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Illinois, USA
♀ 42092
Member # 42092
Default  Posted: 12:41 AM, July 13th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sounds pretty wonderful! I'm loving your attitude. Onwards and upwards and good riddance to bad garbage!

Sit. Feast on your life.

Posts: 4321 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
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