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crazyblindsided posted 7/14/2014 05:16 AM

I just had my final Dday 3 days ago and will not be in R. I will be moving down to S & D forum. Thank you to all who have helped me here.

Areukiddingme posted 7/14/2014 05:36 AM

So sorry to hear this. I think this is all of our worst fears. Please stay strong. Sending strength your way.

confused615 posted 7/14/2014 05:43 AM


I'm so sorry.

blakesteele posted 7/14/2014 06:10 AM


It is with much sadness that I read this post. I'm sorry your husband has chosen as he has. The truth is waywards have a ton of work to do within themselves. The truth is they are waywards because of a serious lack of fortitude to change known destructive and isolating patterns. Add to this the serious pain and trauma their choices have created and it is easy (but oh so painful) to see why adultery is considered the trial of trials for a M..

Truth is God gets this. He too is sad, but He Is compassionate.

Truth is your sharing of your story has helped others write more true then in my case. My third DD of 4 weeks ago has me facing some painful truths of my own.

You are one of my original brat pack members. I've started to go into the S and D forum I'll keep an eye out for you in there.

Keep reaching out.,..we have your back.

God is with us all.

[This message edited by blakesteele at 6:35 AM, July 14th (Monday)]

Hatemyhusband posted 7/14/2014 06:35 AM

Only you know when it is time and I admire your strength for saying "It's time"
Yes, we all fear what you posted- another DD, but as I have said to my H, there will NOT be any chance for R if any of the agreed upon conditions have not been followed

Hold your head up high. Move full speed ahead. Time to focus on you and be done w this path

rachelc posted 7/14/2014 07:35 AM


Sunnydaysahead posted 7/14/2014 10:18 AM

I just read your post in the S/D column, I am so very sorry your husband made the choices he did. I admire your courage and for respecting yourself to know you have had enough. I wish you strength and peace in the coming days.


hopefull77 posted 7/14/2014 10:25 AM

I am sorry to read this CB....
this journey is a hard one ...moving forward is the only way to go....your priority is YOU AND YOUR CHILDREN...keep the faith in yourself and do not doubt yourself...
Again YOU are the priority!

Rebreather posted 7/14/2014 10:40 AM

Oh honey. You've worked, so, so hard. Please don't let this deter you from your continued self-healing. You are worth so.much.more. than he has given you. I am sure you are so hurt right now. Big, big hugs.

ItsaClimb posted 7/14/2014 13:06 PM

{{crazyblindsided}} I am so, so sorry. I have followed your journey for a long time now and it breaks my heart to know you are going through this. We're still here for you, don't forget that. Sending you positive thoughts and prayers xx

sisoon posted 7/14/2014 17:03 PM

I'm really sorry you have to go through this.

I'm glad you've found the strength and clarity to do it, though.

hopefullromantic posted 7/15/2014 13:18 PM


LA44 posted 7/19/2014 22:09 PM

Oh goodness ((cbs))...I am so sorry.

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