I can't quote on my phone.
I'm staying because I love him. Our marriage isn't all terrible. There's a lot of wonderful.
My recent Dday is what triggered me. I found a FB message on Dday to this "friend" calling her stunning and saying he missed her. He only admitted today that they fooled around once before he and I started dating.
I have never believed she was just a friend or that the text was even to her. I also never found proof of anything else between them.
I'll never know now. I should have called the number and confronted when I found it. I thought of messaging her on FB too but it's been so long.