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katiescarlett posted 7/14/2014 19:16 PM

So, I'm supposed to believe that my lying WH texted "I love you. I miss you. I wish you were in my arms" to just a friend? This same friend he called stunning and admitted he had a drunken sexual encounter with, I'm supposed to buy that?

For 5 years this text has haunted my memory. I never forgot it. It is burned in my brain and I remember how I felt when I saw it. I was pregnant and started shaking and felt so cold. Like my heart froze. I just want the damn truth.

rachelc posted 7/14/2014 19:19 PM

Honey why are you staying ? Would he come here to post if you are going to recover?

Hugs !!!

TS68 posted 7/14/2014 19:22 PM

No, you shouldn't believe what he told you. Do you know anything else?
Did something trigger you to ask now after 5 years? Just goes to show, unresolved lies never really go away.
I know how you feel. Sorry...
You should have some real advice soon.

Kajem posted 7/14/2014 19:35 PM

Trust your gut, it doesn't lie.

Dark Inertia posted 7/14/2014 19:49 PM

It doesn't get any more blatant. To believe it is a "just friends" relationship would be foolish.

h0peless posted 7/14/2014 19:52 PM

It's ab out as believable as the model who claims to survive off of sunlight. It's a bald faced lie.

katiescarlett posted 7/14/2014 20:11 PM

I can't quote on my phone.

I'm staying because I love him. Our marriage isn't all terrible. There's a lot of wonderful.

My recent Dday is what triggered me. I found a FB message on Dday to this "friend" calling her stunning and saying he missed her. He only admitted today that they fooled around once before he and I started dating.

I have never believed she was just a friend or that the text was even to her. I also never found proof of anything else between them.

I'll never know now. I should have called the number and confronted when I found it. I thought of messaging her on FB too but it's been so long.

Ostrich80 posted 7/15/2014 01:58 AM

I'll never know now.

I think you do know. just because you can't confirm doesn't mean it didn't happen. Our gut feelings are real. I'm so sorry he has caused you so much pain

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