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Topic: Making it Through Anniversary

Brokenheart15
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Posted: 8:02 PM, July 14th (Monday), 2014

Tomorrow would have been our second wedding anniversary (though we've been together 8 years). I'm feeling pretty down tonight and heart broken thinking about all of the empty promises and everything this marriage could have been. Just curious to see what others did to make it through the first anniversary after D Day?

Posts: 8 | Registered: May 2014 | From: Arizona

BlueBlueEyes
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Posted: 8:31 PM, July 14th (Monday), 2014

Brokenheart,
I found out two weeks prior to my 30th anniversary. I wish I'd ended things before I was in too deep. I don't think I've said that before. It's just hard to regain trust when you feel so betrayed. I wish you strength and wisdom. Some things really aren't meant to be :(

BW - 49
WH - 50
Married 30 years
Beautiful Son, Daughter and 2 Grandsons.

OW - multiple, just found out about ALL of them, Husband coming out of years of fog due to multiple childhood and military events.

Hopeful but cautious

Posts: 194 | Registered: Jul 2014 | From: Texas

mhca
♂ 41920
Member # 41920

Posted: 9:00 PM, July 14th (Monday), 2014

My 19th was last week. Very painful when we woke up, such a sad situation. But we resolved to have a nice day and we did, mostly. I think modest expectations helped.

[This message edited by mhca at 11:47 PM, July 14th (Monday)]

Me: BH 48 - STBXWW 47 - M 19 years
DS15 - DS11
DD#1: 12/24/2013
False R
DD#2: 4/15/2014
TT 4/23, 4/24, 5/31, 7/19
Divorcing

Sample recovery plan, feedback welcome: http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=539961

Posts: 1116 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: California

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