I thought I would post something positive. I tend to post more when I am floundering and looking for advice.
I went on H's work email last week to just check out what was going on at work. I saw the "your password is going to expire in 6 days" thing. So it expired yesterday. For the longest time he was just changing it by one number so that I would always have it. He had a computer crash at work about a month ago and the IT people gave him a password (which he gave to me) but when it came time to change it he would have to come up with one. I had some slight anxiety thinking "will he bother to tell me....to know how important this feels to me?"
So he gets to work this morning...logs on, then immediately called me to say good morning, tell me that his password changed yesterday and gave me the new one. He then said "lets meet at the gym after work and get in a workout together" He is not real keen on working out but knows I love it (I was planning on going on my own this morning...but I'll wait and go with him).
I hung up the phone and smiled and said out loud to myself "You really are a good man....I think you are getting it". I will make sure I also tell him this when I see him. It started my day off RIGHT