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User Topic: things to ponder
LostJo
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Default  Posted: 4:38 PM, July 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've been trying to stay positive and work hard on our R. Came across an article and took a few things out and wrote down and will keep it near me so I can read it anytime. Thought they may help others:

Just because itís not happening now, doesnít mean it never will. Sometimes things have to go very wrong before they can be right

if youíre too afraid of failure, you canít possibly do what needs to be done to be successful.

Realizing that grudges from the past are a perfect waste of todayís happiness, and that holding one is like letting unwanted company live rent free in your head

What you have today may become what you have tomorrow. You never know. Things change, often spontaneously. Life doesnít stop for anybody. It moves rapidly and rushes from calm to chaos in a matter of seconds, and happens like this to people every day. Itís likely happening to someone nearby right now.
Sometimes the shortest split second in time changes the direction of our lives. A seemingly innocuous decision rattles our whole world like a meteorite striking Earth. Entire lives have been swiveled and flipped upside down, for better or worse, on the strength of an unpredictable event. And these events are always happening. However good or bad a situation is now, it will change. Thatís the one thing you can count on. So when life is good, enjoy it.

Be bold. Be courageous. Be scared to death, and then take the next step anyway.

Me: BS 45 yrs old
Him: WS 45 yrs old
Married 21 years
3 children, 18,16,12
D-Day 10/31/13
Length of affair: 4 months
R going well


Posts: 21 | Registered: Nov 2013
LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 8:18 PM, July 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

These are really great!

I especially like the last one:

Be bold. Be courageous. Be scared to death, and then take the next step anyway.

Thanks for sharing these today.


Posts: 8230 | Registered: Dec 2010
Tred
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Member # 34086
Default  Posted: 8:26 PM, July 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Be bold. Be courageous. Be scared to death, and then take the next step anyway.

Yeah, liked that too. JJ, hold my beer.


Married: 17 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

Posts: 4128 | Registered: Dec 2011
somanyyears
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Member # 26970
Default  Posted: 8:34 PM, July 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


..@LostJo..

You speak the truth..

the shortest split second in time changes the direction of our lives.

..and to prove it:

..several days ago, a nephew was hit on his motorcycle and when he woke from the coma, his leg was gone! and he was lucky to keep the other one..

..life can throw some nasty curves at us..

So when life is good, enjoy it.

.. smy


trust no other human- love only your pets
She isn't and never was who I thought..I can't believe who I married and what she did to us.
Me 67
Her 63
Married 42 yrs (together 47)
18 yr LTA with bf


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