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SisterMilkshake posted 7/15/2014 17:13 PM

Had to drive to a part of the city I don't normally drive to. It happens to be the part of the city where the favored hotel for their hook ups is located. I didn't even think of that.

The drive down, totally didn't realize I was in that part of the city, drove right by the hotel, didn't even notice it. YAY!

Four years out and I can assure you that the triggers do lessen. A lot. There is hope, newbies to reconciliation. It will get better.

However, on the ride home, I drove by the hotel and I just happened to glance over at that particular time and read the sign and went "oh!". Just was driving and processing, doing self talk. Hey, you didn't even realize where you were, how cool is that. This trigger didn't even bother me, it didn't trigger me. Blah, blah, blah.

Then I realized I had driven two miles past my exit. I still feel it was a "win"!

I have to drive by it two times again tomorrow. I have no qualms whatsoever.

devasted30 posted 7/15/2014 17:15 PM

Whoot whoot!!!! Good for you.

musiclovingmom posted 7/15/2014 18:20 PM

Yahoo! Every little victory is worth celebrating!

hopefull77 posted 7/15/2014 18:50 PM

UndecidedinMA posted 7/15/2014 19:01 PM

NICE!!!
I still trigger when I hit "her" area. Can't wait til the day I realize I am there after the fact

Allornothing posted 7/15/2014 19:04 PM

This makes me so happy!

gabear posted 7/15/2014 19:13 PM

gives me hope :)

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