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User Topic: Pray for me...
purplejacket4
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Member # 34262
Default  Posted: 12:22 PM, July 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Tomorrow I commence with babysitting SIX nieces and nephews for five days: 14, 11, 6, 4, 3 and 6 months.

I'll need all your thoughts and good wishes!


Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

Posts: 2360 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Great Southwest
norabird
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Default  Posted: 12:25 PM, July 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WOW.

I like kids but goodness! That's a big range! For a long time!

I have faith in you though.


Sit. Feast on your life.

Posts: 4235 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
DixieD
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Member # 33457
Default  Posted: 12:27 PM, July 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You are very brave. May the force be with you. Good luck!


Growing forward

Posts: 1767 | Registered: Sep 2011
JanaGreen
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Default  Posted: 12:29 PM, July 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You are a brave, brave, brave woman.


We're both in our 30s. One awesome 5-year-old daughter. Baby Green 2.0 expected June 2015!!!!!!!!!

Posts: 6972 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Somewhere in the South
metamorphisis
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Member # 12041
Default  Posted: 12:36 PM, July 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh please tell me the lab will be around to add to the chaos. This I gotta see.



“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin

Posts: 45402 | Registered: Sep 2006
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 12:46 PM, July 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

PJ, you may be a highly capable physician, but this may be beyond your skills.....

I'll send my best wishes. <<Shudder>>


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7865 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 12:52 PM, July 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying, sending mojo, strength, and fingers crossed time flies.

Posts: 36776 | Registered: Mar 2011
MissesJai
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Default  Posted: 12:59 PM, July 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

oh geez! sending prayers, strength, and some hard liquor!!


FWW - 41
"Don't think first about the risks of speaking up. Think first about the risks of not speaking up." ~ Kerry Patterson

Posts: 6042 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: So Cal.....
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 1:00 PM, July 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'll be drinking my dinner for you


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 1:03 PM, July 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yikes! I get anxiety when we're going to have our 6 yo niece and 3 yo nephew for the weekend! You're a very, very brave woman!

Good luck!


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 1:13 PM, July 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ack! You are in my thoughts and prayers

Have lots of fun and fill them up with sugar right before you send them home. You will never be asked to sit again


Hallelujah! Holy shit! Where's the tylenol?

Posts: 20559 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 1:13 PM, July 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow! Hopefully you can recruit the 14 and 11 y/o as part of the authoritah squad!

Sending mojo.


"Welcome the rawness of vulnerability as an opportunity to open." - Pema Chodron

Me: BW 35
Crazz: WH 33
Daughter: 4.5 Going on 16


Posts: 18690 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
yearsofpain25
♂ 42012
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Default  Posted: 1:14 PM, July 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow Dr PJ. If there's anyone that can do it, it's you.

One word of advice, save all that hard liquor that everyone is sending your way for afterwards. You are going to need your wits about you.


"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll

Posts: 2480 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Northeast US
imagoodwitch
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Default  Posted: 1:35 PM, July 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

YAY!!!!

Camp purplejacket!


I am just your ordinary average everyday sane psycho supergoddess - Liz Phair

Don't keep dancing with the Devil and wonder why you are still in Hell.

It's all shits and giggles until someone giggles and shits.


Posts: 5509 | Registered: Mar 2009 | From: Munchkinland
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 1:46 PM, July 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm confident you will ALL have a blast. And hopefully, lots of naps.


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


Posts: 26496 | Registered: Aug 2011
scaredyKat
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Default  Posted: 2:51 PM, July 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Whatever did you do to deserve this? Or the parents do to earn this? Must have been big...

Prayers started...


Me-BS-60
HIM-SAFWH-63
Damn autocorrect is responsible for the silly errors, sorry!

Posts: 3866 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: In my head
unfound
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Default  Posted: 3:02 PM, July 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

dr pj, dr pj.. we knew her well.

((purplejacket))

I vote for renting a bouncy house for the week. loads of fun, wears them out (minus the wee one), and can be used as a hideout when you run out of benydryl* .


*kidding! but the bottle CAN be used to jam under a door to keep them out, or in... depending on your needs


ka-mai
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From time to time, I do consider that I might be mad. Like any self-respecting lunatic, however, I am always quick to dismiss any doubts about my sanity. DK

Posts: 14877 | Registered: Nov 2006 | From: mercury's underboob
CheaterMagnet
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Default  Posted: 3:22 PM, July 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You are a very brave woman.

Or a complete nutter!!!


If Happy Ever After did exist, I would still be holding you like this.
All those fairly tales are full of shit.
One more fucking love song I'll be sick. ~ Maroon 5

Posts: 1070 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Kailua-Kona, HI
purplejacket4
♀ 34262
Member # 34262
Default  Posted: 3:45 PM, July 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's a gift I'm giving to sis and BIL for their 20 anniversary. Sigh. I'm going up to Seattle to do this.


Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

Posts: 2360 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Great Southwest
jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 3:47 PM, July 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You can do this... really!! Besides the older ones can help with the younger ones...

Just watch a few episodes of the Duggers (19 Kids and Counting) on TLC for some pointers!!

If I can herd cats (Teenagers with behavior and emotional problems) all day every day... you can do this!! Piece of cake! *maybe give them lots of cake w/mild sedatives baked in too*


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

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