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sorrowfulmate posted 7/16/2014 21:40 PM
It's a pretty quick read.
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[This message edited by sorrowfulmate at 10:58 AM, July 17th (Thursday)]
FixYou71 posted 7/16/2014 23:36 PM
An excellent source for both WS and BS. I hope you get a lot out of it.
sorrowfulmate posted 7/17/2014 07:02 AM
What I'm getting out of it is how badly I've bungled trying to reconcile. Between trickle truth and other things.
PenitentMan posted 7/17/2014 09:27 AM
On one hand, I feel like the more copies of "How to help your spouse heal from your affair" that are read, the better off this world is.
On the other hand, I wish I knew there was a PDF, so I could've saved money, considering that I've spent quite a bit on books.
On the other hand, that would be stealing, since, if you visit the website: http://www.lindajmacdonald.com/Mini-Books.html
it's clearly meant to be purchased.
Stealing is wrong, but it's not hurting anyone and linda macdonald probably made enough money from other people, right? This is actually an area I struggle with. Is it ok to pirate movies from the big movie companies who've made millions anyway by people who are willing to see it in theaters? Nobody is getting hurt, right? Where have I heard that before? Oh right, that one was already filed under my own rationalizations. 
Didn't mean to start a whole "thing" here 
But yes, don't let the brevity of this book fool you, it should be required reading for anyone in this forum, in my opinion, whether it's paid for or not. 
sorrowfulmate posted 7/17/2014 10:56 AM
I will contact the website owner, it is accessible via google therefore I didn't realize it was supposed to be purchased.
sorrowfulmate posted 7/17/2014 11:04 AM
I wrote the author and let her know about the link and that its google searchable.
I also offered to pay her for her book which I downloaded.
If you grabbed it off my link, please make sure you let her know and do the right thing.
NoGoodUsername posted 7/17/2014 11:50 AM
Hey sorrowfulmate, good on you!
integrity is bigger than just your marriage. It's a good start.