Wish you the very best in this healing journey!
4 kids all adults.
Married 22+ years.
I have moved on and life is good!
Yes, actions, not words. And, I may add - SUSTAINED actions. Not just a little blip here and there, a crumb of remorse when necessary to keep you happy.
My thoughts and prayers are with you as you face all this. I hope hope hope it comes out good for you in the end.
Honey, he cheated, a lot. Don't downplay this betrayal by letting him talk you out of what you know. You're here, on a site for those that have been cheated on. Why did you seek out such a site? Because you felt cheated. Because he cheated.
Sometimes recovery is waking up early to write in coffee shops and practicing yoga and eating lots of fruit and chocolate and sometimes itís staying in bed all day and hiding from the world until you can stop crying. All of this is okay. Whatís important is that you take care of yourself no matter what kind of day youíre having.