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Topic: Crush leaves party w someone else
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Why??
♀ 18132
Member # 18132 |  Posted: 6:01 AM, July 20th (Sunday), 2014 |     |
I know it's probably for the best...we work together...but it still hurts 
This woman was like a heat seeking missile...it was hard watching her go after him and him responding 
Forcing myself to go to the gym today even though I feel crappy (beers @ party).
"And in the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years."
"If you want something in this life, reach out and grab it."
Posts: 2493 | Registered: Feb 2008 |
MovingUpward
♂ 14866
Member # 14866 |  Posted: 7:00 AM, July 20th (Sunday), 2014 | |
((((hugs))))
AKA Moo
Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless
We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.
Posts: 54367 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation |
Kajem
♀ 36134
Member # 36134 | | Posted: 7:02 AM, July 20th (Sunday), 2014 | |
((((((((Why?)))))))))
So hard to watch that happen.
Hoping you feel better after the workout.
More hugs,
K
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
Posts: 6680 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida |
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♀ 18132
Member # 18132 | | Posted: 8:35 AM, July 20th (Sunday), 2014 | |
Thanks guys. Outside walking by the water before gym opens.
"And in the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years."
"If you want something in this life, reach out and grab it."
Posts: 2493 | Registered: Feb 2008 |
Williesmom
♀ 22870
Member # 22870 | | Posted: 8:38 AM, July 20th (Sunday), 2014 | |
That sucks. I'm sorry.
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
Posts: 8905 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA |
jo2love
♀ 31528
Member # 31528 | | Posted: 8:48 AM, July 20th (Sunday), 2014 | |
(((Why)))
Posts: 46393 | Registered: Mar 2011 |
Whalers11
♀ 27544
Member # 27544 | | Posted: 12:23 PM, July 20th (Sunday), 2014 | |
This is the story of my life. I am always interested in guys who are interested in someone else.
It sucks, big time. Hurts every time.
Me: BGF - 35
Posts: 3218 | Registered: Feb 2010 |
brokeninfl
♀ 21896
Member # 21896 | | Posted: 12:27 PM, July 20th (Sunday), 2014 | |
"On the other side of fear lies freedom"
Me - 36 BS
Him - doesn't matter
2 DS
DD 11/08
Divorced.
Posts: 1074 | Registered: Dec 2008 |
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♀ 18132
Member # 18132 | | Posted: 3:52 PM, July 20th (Sunday), 2014 | |
Sorry you've dealt with this too Whalers
So now the fun part tomorrow...acting normal. I guess this is why so many advise against dating at work (not that we did or that he knew about my crush). If I ignore him or act different he might realize what happened.
Fun.
"And in the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years."
"If you want something in this life, reach out and grab it."
Posts: 2493 | Registered: Feb 2008 |
Lostly
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Member # 43953 | | Posted: 7:40 PM, July 20th (Sunday), 2014 | |
I am so sorry. I have had that happen, and its never fun.
Have you ever read the book "Why Men Love Bitches"? Its a dating advice book that's based on common sense and self respect. Its a little like the 180 of dating. I probably made every mistake in the book until I read that. I've always had a lot of guys interested, just not the ones I liked. Once I started to do some of the things suggested in the book that changed, to my utter amazement. I wish I had known this stuff in college!
Amazon has over 500 positive reviews on it, if you would like to find out more.
I hope all goes well at work tomorrow. 
BW 48 - Multiple d-days
Divorced 2012 after 19 yrs
6 smart, beautiful, amazing kids.
I have finally found my voice and it is good!
Posts: 234 | Registered: Jul 2014 | From: Australia |
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♀ 18132
Member # 18132 | | Posted: 8:29 PM, July 20th (Sunday), 2014 | |
Yes! I have the book but it's been a while since I read it.
I've been on a dating break for a year and need a refresher for sure.
Not sure about tomorrow. It will be hard for me but in time I hope it gets better.
Thanks for all the support!
"And in the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years."
"If you want something in this life, reach out and grab it."
Posts: 2493 | Registered: Feb 2008 |
better4me
♀ 30341
Member # 30341 | | Posted: 10:38 PM, July 20th (Sunday), 2014 | |
(((Why)))
I've been there...it sucks.
"Date Like A Grown Up" by Bobbi Palmer is also a good book...
DDay 11/17/2010 BW:54
Divorced
Posts: 3882 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa |
Williesmom
♀ 22870
Member # 22870 | | Posted: 11:35 AM, July 21st (Monday), 2014 | |
Let us know how today went. Sending you good thoughts.
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
Posts: 8905 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA |
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♀ 18132
Member # 18132 | | Posted: 5:20 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014 | |
It was ok I guess. He of course was acting normal no reason for him not to.
I am going to try and cut down on emails and trips to his office for work stuff. I did used to stop by more w work stuff but also because I wanted to see him.
It has been so long since I have liked someone...boo.
"And in the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years."
"If you want something in this life, reach out and grab it."
Posts: 2493 | Registered: Feb 2008 |
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