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Why?? posted 7/20/2014 06:01 AM

I know it's probably for the best...we work together...but it still hurts

This woman was like a heat seeking missile...it was hard watching her go after him and him responding

Forcing myself to go to the gym today even though I feel crappy (beers @ party).

MovingUpward posted 7/20/2014 07:00 AM

((((hugs))))

Kajem posted 7/20/2014 07:02 AM

((((((((Why?)))))))))

So hard to watch that happen.

Hoping you feel better after the workout.

More hugs,
K

Why?? posted 7/20/2014 08:35 AM

Thanks guys. Outside walking by the water before gym opens.

Williesmom posted 7/20/2014 08:38 AM

That sucks. I'm sorry.

jo2love posted 7/20/2014 08:48 AM

(((Why)))

Whalers11 posted 7/20/2014 12:23 PM

This is the story of my life. I am always interested in guys who are interested in someone else.

It sucks, big time. Hurts every time.

brokeninfl posted 7/20/2014 12:27 PM

I'm so sorry (((why))).

Why?? posted 7/20/2014 15:52 PM

Sorry you've dealt with this too Whalers

So now the fun part tomorrow...acting normal. I guess this is why so many advise against dating at work (not that we did or that he knew about my crush). If I ignore him or act different he might realize what happened.

Fun.

Lostly posted 7/20/2014 19:40 PM

I am so sorry. I have had that happen, and its never fun.

Have you ever read the book "Why Men Love Bitches"? Its a dating advice book that's based on common sense and self respect. Its a little like the 180 of dating. I probably made every mistake in the book until I read that. I've always had a lot of guys interested, just not the ones I liked. Once I started to do some of the things suggested in the book that changed, to my utter amazement. I wish I had known this stuff in college!

Amazon has over 500 positive reviews on it, if you would like to find out more.

I hope all goes well at work tomorrow.

Why?? posted 7/20/2014 20:29 PM

Yes! I have the book but it's been a while since I read it.

I've been on a dating break for a year and need a refresher for sure.

Not sure about tomorrow. It will be hard for me but in time I hope it gets better.

Thanks for all the support!

better4me posted 7/20/2014 22:38 PM

(((Why)))

I've been there...it sucks.

"Date Like A Grown Up" by Bobbi Palmer is also a good book...

Williesmom posted 7/21/2014 11:35 AM

Let us know how today went. Sending you good thoughts.

Why?? posted 7/21/2014 17:20 PM

It was ok I guess. He of course was acting normal no reason for him not to.

I am going to try and cut down on emails and trips to his office for work stuff. I did used to stop by more w work stuff but also because I wanted to see him.

It has been so long since I have liked someone...boo.