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Topic: Crush leaves party w someone else
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Why??
♀ 18132
Member # 18132 |  Posted: 6:01 AM, July 20th (Sunday), 2014 |     |
I know it's probably for the best...we work together...but it still hurts 
This woman was like a heat seeking missile...it was hard watching her go after him and him responding 
Forcing myself to go to the gym today even though I feel crappy (beers @ party).
"Don't let the fear of striking out keep you from playing the game."
Posts: 1880 | Registered: Feb 2008 |
MovingUpward
♂ 14866
Member # 14866 |  Posted: 7:00 AM, July 20th (Sunday), 2014 | |
((((hugs))))
AKA Moo
Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless
We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.
Posts: 53716 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation |
Kajem
♀ 36134
Member # 36134 | | Posted: 7:02 AM, July 20th (Sunday), 2014 | |
((((((((Why?)))))))))
So hard to watch that happen.
Hoping you feel better after the workout.
More hugs,
K
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
Posts: 5904 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida |
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♀ 18132
Member # 18132 | | Posted: 8:35 AM, July 20th (Sunday), 2014 | |
Thanks guys. Outside walking by the water before gym opens.
"Don't let the fear of striking out keep you from playing the game."
Posts: 1880 | Registered: Feb 2008 |
Williesmom
♀ 22870
Member # 22870 | | Posted: 8:38 AM, July 20th (Sunday), 2014 | |
That sucks. I'm sorry.
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
Posts: 7929 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA |
jo2love
♀ 31528
Member # 31528 | | Posted: 8:48 AM, July 20th (Sunday), 2014 | |
(((Why)))
Posts: 37477 | Registered: Mar 2011 |
Whalers11
♀ 27544
Member # 27544 | | Posted: 12:23 PM, July 20th (Sunday), 2014 | |
This is the story of my life. I am always interested in guys who are interested in someone else.
It sucks, big time. Hurts every time.
Me: BGF - 33
I gave you more than I ever got back
You left me here to forget about that
All the things you thought you had have gone
Let that be a lesson to you
-Richie Kotzen, "Special"
Posts: 2371 | Registered: Feb 2010 |
brokeninfl
♀ 21896
Member # 21896 | | Posted: 12:27 PM, July 20th (Sunday), 2014 | |
"On the other side of fear lies freedom"
Me - 36 BS
Him - doesn't matter
2 DS
DD 11/08
Divorced.
Posts: 1074 | Registered: Dec 2008 |
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♀ 18132
Member # 18132 | | Posted: 3:52 PM, July 20th (Sunday), 2014 | |
Sorry you've dealt with this too Whalers
So now the fun part tomorrow...acting normal. I guess this is why so many advise against dating at work (not that we did or that he knew about my crush). If I ignore him or act different he might realize what happened.
Fun.
"Don't let the fear of striking out keep you from playing the game."
Posts: 1880 | Registered: Feb 2008 |
Lostly
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Member # 43953 | | Posted: 7:40 PM, July 20th (Sunday), 2014 | |
I am so sorry. I have had that happen, and its never fun.
Have you ever read the book "Why Men Love Bitches"? Its a dating advice book that's based on common sense and self respect. Its a little like the 180 of dating. I probably made every mistake in the book until I read that. I've always had a lot of guys interested, just not the ones I liked. Once I started to do some of the things suggested in the book that changed, to my utter amazement. I wish I had known this stuff in college!
Amazon has over 500 positive reviews on it, if you would like to find out more.
I hope all goes well at work tomorrow. 
BW 48 - Multiple d-days
Divorced 2012 after 19 yrs
6 smart, beautiful, amazing kids Dd 19; Ds 17; Dd 15; Ds 13; Ds 11; Dd 10
Sometimes I hear my voice, and it's been here, silent all these years. I've been here, silent all these years.
Posts: 111 | Registered: Jul 2014 | From: Australia |
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♀ 18132
Member # 18132 | | Posted: 8:29 PM, July 20th (Sunday), 2014 | |
Yes! I have the book but it's been a while since I read it.
I've been on a dating break for a year and need a refresher for sure.
Not sure about tomorrow. It will be hard for me but in time I hope it gets better.
Thanks for all the support!
"Don't let the fear of striking out keep you from playing the game."
Posts: 1880 | Registered: Feb 2008 |
better4me
♀ 30341
Member # 30341 | | Posted: 10:38 PM, July 20th (Sunday), 2014 | |
(((Why)))
I've been there...it sucks.
"Date Like A Grown Up" by Bobbi Palmer is also a good book...
DDay 11/17/2010 BW:53
Divorced
Posts: 3269 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa |
Williesmom
♀ 22870
Member # 22870 | | Posted: 11:35 AM, July 21st (Monday), 2014 | |
Let us know how today went. Sending you good thoughts.
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
Posts: 7929 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA |
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♀ 18132
Member # 18132 | | Posted: 5:20 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014 | |
It was ok I guess. He of course was acting normal no reason for him not to.
I am going to try and cut down on emails and trips to his office for work stuff. I did used to stop by more w work stuff but also because I wanted to see him.
It has been so long since I have liked someone...boo.
"Don't let the fear of striking out keep you from playing the game."
Posts: 1880 | Registered: Feb 2008 |
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