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gonnabe2016 posted 7/20/2014 21:06 PM

I'm never going to be divorced from Monster.
We had a trial date scheduled for mid-August and it's now being delayed because he won't comply with financial disclosure.
Apparently he's decided that he's divorced and who needs to worry about the little details of making it official?
He is living his life as if he's already divorced.
Does he not realize that there's a difference between getting divorced and being divorced????

This sucks. I hate being held hostage.

peridot posted 7/20/2014 21:08 PM

(((gonnabe2016)))

He can only put it off for so long.

ChoosingHope posted 7/20/2014 21:22 PM

I actually shivered when I read your title, Gonna.

My trial was originally scheduled for July 2012. He managed to postpone it for two full years, mostly through failures of discovery, but worse, also through false accusations against me and my attorneys like the infamous nonexistent key logger.

You will prevail. You WILL. Keep posting, and SI will support you. He can't postpone it forever. Not even GENIUS could do that.

gonnabe2016 posted 7/20/2014 21:23 PM

He can only put it off for so long.

Yea, that's what I said a year ago.
I have been actively trying to divorce this guy since August 2012.
We aren't even held up because we can't agree on shit.
We're held up because he won't provide necessary information......and when he's informed of delays, I get the brain damage from him about how *I'm* the one delaying shit because I'm greedy.

I just want to Be.Done with him.


eta: @CH: you and I have a lot in common.....

[This message edited by gonnabe2016 at 9:24 PM, July 20th (Sunday)]

dmari posted 7/20/2014 22:41 PM

How will the court "encourage" him to comply? Fines? Your attorney fees covered?

Nature_Girl posted 7/20/2014 23:13 PM

Mine did this too, and yes, had the audacity to assert that I was the cause of the divorce being dragged out!

Compartmented posted 7/21/2014 22:42 PM

Mine did this too, and yes, had the audacity to assert that I was the cause of the divorce being dragged out!
Ditto!

He also told the children I was running up the attorney bills! He made a mistake though. He told them I was doing it BEFORE he ran the bills up. Dumb ass.

nekorb posted 7/21/2014 22:51 PM

I just want to Be.Done with him.

That's what he's counting on. Push that shit out of your mind!

Kajem posted 7/22/2014 10:21 AM

(((((((((((((gonna))))))))))))

He's counting on wearing you down. It will happen eventually.

I hate to say it, but I thought you were looking to be divorced by 2016 - like your name.

Sending strength.

K

gonnabe2016 posted 7/22/2014 10:59 AM

I hate to say it, but I thought you were looking to be divorced by 2016 - like your name.


I hadn't thought of that before now, but at the rate things are going, it may end up being true.

If he's trying to wear me down -- it's not gonna work. At this point, my L wouldn't allow me to sit down for any type of negotiations without having the information that we're trying to get. He is LEGALLY required to provide what we're asking for....and so we'll wait until he does.


How will the court "encourage" him to comply?

I guess I'll find out tomorrow. We have a scheduling conference to attend in the morning where the new trial date will be set.

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