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Pass posted 7/20/2014 22:00 PM

After a great nine-day stay here, my boys went back to The Princess this afternoon. I did a post on facebook about how quiet the apartment suddenly is. About an hour after that, one of my music friends - who I didn't even know a year ago - texted me:

On my way over with my guitar. I have wine.

Turns out, that's what it's like to have friends: They notice when you need company, and they make sure you have it. And most importantly, they bring wine!

I had no idea what it was like to NOT be isolated from people who might actually be nice to me. My life is slowly finding a good place to be!

Angeles85 posted 7/20/2014 22:12 PM

I'm glad you have good friends Pass! You deserve them.

MovingUpward posted 7/20/2014 22:15 PM

PurpleRose posted 7/20/2014 22:47 PM

Isn't it wonderful? I love my friends so much and they have really stepped up for me too!

I am to the point now that I have become "that friend" for a few people in my life going through this roller coaster of emotions. I am so happy to give back!

Acer0112 posted 7/21/2014 00:25 AM

Wonderful!! That is so genuine.

I agree, friends that I haven't seen in years have genuinely asked to get together to be there for me,

One of them ironically saw WH with OW the other night, her email to me said, I hope he is being honest with you, you deserve the best and nothing less. It's a shock to my college friends as they all enjoyed WH and loved us as a couple.

deena posted 7/21/2014 01:27 AM

It is good friends that boost your confidence back up and give you that warm feeling.

I am so glad when I finally told my close friends......and boy they sure stood up for me in a big way.

Enjoy your friends!!!!

Kajem posted 7/21/2014 08:41 AM

LIKE!!!!!

If we had a like button, I'd be hitting it several times. 😊

Pass posted 7/21/2014 09:08 AM

Thanks, y'all. I spend so much time complaining on here, that once in a while I like to tell the good stuff too.

I put up with The Princess isolating me from everyone except HER friends and family for years. Thanks to me finding out she was also a cheater, I found the strength to leave, and am discovering a whole new life. And I love it!

norabird posted 7/21/2014 11:08 AM

How amazing.

Williesmom posted 7/21/2014 11:40 AM

Very cool realization, Pass. Sounds like he's a great friend.

My friends drug me through the divorce when I was unable to walk on my own. They fed me, made me laugh, and listened to me cry. I have one friend from Italy that called and screamed at wxh in Italian because he was too pissed off to speak English.

LifeIsBroken posted 7/21/2014 20:47 PM

Like Williesmom, my friends carried me through this mess. It was like they came out of the woodwork and circled the wagons to make sure I survived the devastation. I learned I had friends I didn't even KNOW I had ! Their support was amazing and I DID SURVIVE infidelity, thanks to all of them and our two amazing daughters. Lean on your friends, Pass…. after all, would you not do the same for them ?

Ashland13 posted 7/21/2014 21:13 PM

When they are real, "Friends" is one of the few good F words there is!

careerlady posted 7/22/2014 02:13 AM

That's really cool! My family has carried me through but they are out of town. Have some friends but they all have toddlers and busy lives.... Happy for you!

Pass posted 7/22/2014 09:15 AM

Myname posted 7/22/2014 09:42 AM

Great post. Made me

That is the definition of a real friend.

jagged posted 7/22/2014 09:47 AM

Damn. My musician friends never bring wine...they drink all of mine.

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