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Firstlovelost7 posted 7/20/2014 22:01 PM

In all honesty, those who have been betrayed and their spouse left for the OP, how long was it before they came back? Or did they never try to come back?
When they did, what did you do?
If they didn't, how long was it for you to be able to move on?

self-rescuer posted 7/20/2014 22:21 PM

Just wanted you to know that you've been heard.

My situation does not fit your question. But I can say that although he did not leave for the OW I kicked him out because he refused to give her up.

Oddly, we've been divorced over a year and I'm moving on well but OW remains married to her husband and my ex still talks about coming home to me. Some very unhealthy dynamics. There is NEVER a day that I regret taking back my power and moving forward.

broken26 posted 7/20/2014 22:47 PM

That's a good question. It has been 1 month since DDay for me and my WH still isn't ready to talk or come back(not that I would take him back). I am so sick of his sh** though and stopped communicating with him a couple days ago. Things are going to be on my terms now and I'm really thinking R is out of the question.

[This message edited by broken26 at 11:10 PM, July 20th (Sunday)]