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User Topic: In all honesty...
Firstlovelost7
♀ 44076
Member # 44076
Default  Posted: 10:01 PM, July 20th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

In all honesty, those who have been betrayed and their spouse left for the OP, how long was it before they came back? Or did they never try to come back?
When they did, what did you do?
If they didn't, how long was it for you to be able to move on?


Me - 27 BS
Him - 27 WS (EA/PA while I was pregnant)
DDAY - June 12, 2014
One daughter -born March 12, 2014 (during his affair rendezvous before I knew about it)

~ Legally separated, proceeding towards divorce, 180 initiated


Posts: 69 | Registered: Jul 2014 | From: Saskatchewan
self-rescuer
♀ 35059
Member # 35059
Default  Posted: 10:21 PM, July 20th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just wanted you to know that you've been heard.

My situation does not fit your question. But I can say that although he did not leave for the OW I kicked him out because he refused to give her up.

Oddly, we've been divorced over a year and I'm moving on well but OW remains married to her husband and my ex still talks about coming home to me. Some very unhealthy dynamics. There is NEVER a day that I regret taking back my power and moving forward.


BW 53 WXH 56 & still bewildered
D-Day 9-15-11
Divorce 3-13-13

Just trust yourself, then you will know how to live.
~ Goethe


Posts: 506 | Registered: Mar 2012 | From: the south
broken26
♀ 44116
Member # 44116
Default  Posted: 10:47 PM, July 20th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's a good question. It has been 1 month since DDay for me and my WH still isn't ready to talk or come back(not that I would take him back). I am so sick of his sh** though and stopped communicating with him a couple days ago. Things are going to be on my terms now and I'm really thinking R is out of the question.

[This message edited by broken26 at 11:10 PM, July 20th (Sunday)]


Me: 26
WH: 31
DDay: 6/17/14
EA/PA for 6 months
Married: 3.5 years; In divorce process now

Posts: 21 | Registered: Jul 2014
Topic Posts: 3

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