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Topic: Memory fail
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mcmc
♀ 33343
Member # 33343 |  Posted: 5:13 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014 |     |
After years of searching OW just because, I didn't for the longest time (it has probably been six or seven months) and today I was, I guess, bored and something triggered me to search. I realized I cannot remember her name.
Sweet relief.
ME: BW: 43
HIM: WH: 43
DDAY (fake, when he confessed to a texting/emotional A) 8/10
DDAY (real, when I told him I knew the truth) 9/9/11
Posts: 339 | Registered: Sep 2011 |
mhca
♂ 41920
Member # 41920 | | Posted: 5:16 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014 | |
Wow! That must be a beautiful feeling.
Me: BH 48 - STBXWW 47 - M 19 years
DS15 - DS11
DD#1: 12/24/2013
False R
DD#2: 4/15/2014
TT 4/23, 4/24, 5/31, 7/19
Divorcing
Sample recovery plan, feedback welcome: http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=539961
Posts: 1116 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: California |
Chinadoll30
♀ 43131
Member # 43131 | | Posted: 5:42 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014 | |
That is great. I hope I get there someday!
"We must see all scars as beauty. Okay? This will be our secret. Because take it from me, a scar does not form on the dying. A scar means 'I survived'." -Chris Cleave
Posts: 366 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: Philadelphia |
1Faith
♀ 38975
Member # 38975 |  Posted: 5:42 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014 | |
WOW
That is awesome. Congratulations.
I wish I could forget her name, her face, her lies and just HER.
I am better but she still disgusts me on so many levels.
Relish in your relief. Progress.
"I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it." - Maya Angelou
Posts: 1480 | Registered: Apr 2013 |
Jrazz
♀ 31349
Member # 31349 | | Posted: 5:46 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014 | |
Nice!
"All the wars, all the hatred, all the ignorance in the world come out of being so invested in our opinions. And at bottom, those opinions are merely our efforts to escape the underlying uneasiness of being human. - Pema Chodron
Posts: 20974 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California |
sisoon
♂ 31240
Member # 31240 | | Posted: 6:03 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014 | |
 ...wait ... your post made me  . I hope you're laughing, too.
She's getting all the respect she deserves. [This message edited by sisoon at 6:04 PM, July 21st (Monday)]
fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 70 (22 in my head), Married 45+, together since 1965, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
I'm not an exemplar. I share my own experience because it's all I know.
Posts: 11141 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area |
jo2love
♀ 31528
Member # 31528 | | Posted: 6:14 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014 | |
Posts: 38304 | Registered: Mar 2011 |
RidingHealingRd
♀ 33867
Member # 33867 | | Posted: 6:24 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014 | |
I realized I cannot remember her name. '
^^How does that even happen? 
I am 100% certain that I will never forget MOW name!  
ME: 54 BS
HIM: 61 WH
Married: 28 years
D'Day: 10/29/10
in R 4 years and it's working but he is putting 200% into it (as he should) to make it right again.
The truth hurts, but I have never seen it cause the pain that lies do.
Posts: 2184 | Registered: Nov 2011 |
sarahstar
♀ 43889
Member # 43889 | | Posted: 6:27 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014 | |
that must feel good
Posts: 144 | Registered: Jun 2014 |
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