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mcmc (original poster member #33343) posted at 11:13 PM on Monday, July 21st, 2014
After years of searching OW just because, I didn't for the longest time (it has probably been six or seven months) and today I was, I guess, bored and something triggered me to search. I realized I cannot remember her name.
Sweet relief.
ME: BW: 43
HIM: WH: 43
DDAY (fake, when he confessed to a texting/emotional A) 8/10
DDAY (real, when I told him I knew the truth) 9/9/11
healingroad ( member #41920) posted at 11:16 PM on Monday, July 21st, 2014
Wow! That must be a beautiful feeling.
Chinadoll30 ( member #43131) posted at 11:42 PM on Monday, July 21st, 2014
That is great. I hope I get there someday!
"We must see all scars as beauty. Okay? This will be our secret. Because take it from me, a scar does not form on the dying. A scar means 'I survived'." -Chris Cleave
1Faith ( member #38975) posted at 11:42 PM on Monday, July 21st, 2014
WOW
That is awesome. Congratulations.
I wish I could forget her name, her face, her lies and just HER.
I am better but she still disgusts me on so many levels.
Relish in your relief. Progress.
Sometimes my life feels like a test I didn't study for
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 11:46 PM on Monday, July 21st, 2014
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 12:03 AM on Tuesday, July 22nd, 2014
...wait ... your post made me 
. I hope you're laughing, too.
She's getting all the respect she deserves.
[This message edited by sisoon at 6:04 PM, July 21st (Monday)]
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 12:14 AM on Tuesday, July 22nd, 2014
RidingHealingRd ( member #33867) posted at 12:24 AM on Tuesday, July 22nd, 2014
I realized I cannot remember her name.
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^^How does that even happen? 
I am 100% certain that I will never forget MOW name! 
ME: 60 BS
HIM: 67 WH
Married: 35 years
D'Day: 10/29/10
in R 10 years and it's working but he is putting 200% into it (as he should) to make it right again.
The truth hurts, but I have never seen it cause the pain that lies do.
sarahstar ( member #43889) posted at 12:27 AM on Tuesday, July 22nd, 2014
that must feel good
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