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Topic: Memory fail
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mcmc
♀ 33343
Member # 33343 |  Posted: 5:13 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014 |     |
After years of searching OW just because, I didn't for the longest time (it has probably been six or seven months) and today I was, I guess, bored and something triggered me to search. I realized I cannot remember her name.
Sweet relief.
ME: BW: 43
HIM: WH: 43
DDAY (fake, when he confessed to a texting/emotional A) 8/10
DDAY (real, when I told him I knew the truth) 9/9/11
Posts: 339 | Registered: Sep 2011 |
mhca
♂ 41920
Member # 41920 | | Posted: 5:16 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014 | |
Wow! That must be a beautiful feeling.
Me: BH 47 STBXWW 47 (Lklb5)
M 19 years, DS 15, DS 11
DD#1: 12/24/2013
TT/Broke NC/False R
DD#2: 4/15/2014
TT 4/23, 4/24, 5/31, 7/19
Divorcing
Sample recovery plan, feedback welcome: http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=539961
Posts: 986 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: California |
Chinadoll30
♀ 43131
Member # 43131 | | Posted: 5:42 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014 | |
That is great. I hope I get there someday!
"We must see all scars as beauty. Okay? This will be our secret. Because take it from me, a scar does not form on the dying. A scar means 'I survived'." -Chris Cleave
Posts: 357 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: Philadelphia |
1Faith
♀ 38975
Member # 38975 |  Posted: 5:42 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014 | |
WOW
That is awesome. Congratulations.
I wish I could forget her name, her face, her lies and just HER.
I am better but she still disgusts me on so many levels.
Relish in your relief. Progress.
"I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it." - Maya Angelou
Posts: 1461 | Registered: Apr 2013 |
Jrazz
♀ 31349
Member # 31349 | | Posted: 5:46 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014 | |
Nice!
Pain doesn't show up in our lives for no reason. It is a sign that something needs to change.
Posts: 19375 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California |
sisoon
♂ 31240
Member # 31240 | | Posted: 6:03 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014 | |
 ...wait ... your post made me  . I hope you're laughing, too.
She's getting all the respect she deserves. [This message edited by sisoon at 6:04 PM, July 21st (Monday)]
fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 70, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.
Posts: 10957 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area |
jo2love
♀ 31528
Member # 31528 | | Posted: 6:14 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014 | |
Posts: 37573 | Registered: Mar 2011 |
RidingHealingRd
♀ 33867
Member # 33867 | | Posted: 6:24 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014 | |
I realized I cannot remember her name. '
^^How does that even happen? 
I am 100% certain that I will never forget MOW name!  
ME: 54 BS
HIM: 61 WH
Married: 28 years
D'Day: 10/29/10
in R 4 years and it's working but he is putting 200% into it (as he should) to make it right again.
The truth hurts, but I have never seen it cause the pain that lies do.
Posts: 2162 | Registered: Nov 2011 |
sarahstar
♀ 43889
Member # 43889 | | Posted: 6:27 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014 | |
that must feel good
Posts: 143 | Registered: Jun 2014 |
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