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Memory fail

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 mcmc (original poster member #33343) posted at 11:13 PM on Monday, July 21st, 2014

After years of searching OW just because, I didn't for the longest time (it has probably been six or seven months) and today I was, I guess, bored and something triggered me to search. I realized I cannot remember her name.

Sweet relief.

ME: BW: 43
HIM: WH: 43
DDAY (fake, when he confessed to a texting/emotional A) 8/10
DDAY (real, when I told him I knew the truth) 9/9/11

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healingroad ( member #41920) posted at 11:16 PM on Monday, July 21st, 2014

Wow! That must be a beautiful feeling.

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Chinadoll30 ( member #43131) posted at 11:42 PM on Monday, July 21st, 2014

That is great. I hope I get there someday!

"We must see all scars as beauty. Okay? This will be our secret. Because take it from me, a scar does not form on the dying. A scar means 'I survived'." -Chris Cleave

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1Faith ( member #38975) posted at 11:42 PM on Monday, July 21st, 2014

WOW

That is awesome. Congratulations.

I wish I could forget her name, her face, her lies and just HER.

I am better but she still disgusts me on so many levels.

Relish in your relief. Progress.

Sometimes my life feels like a test I didn't study for

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Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 11:46 PM on Monday, July 21st, 2014

Nice!

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom

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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 12:03 AM on Tuesday, July 22nd, 2014

...wait ... your post made me . I hope you're laughing, too.

She's getting all the respect she deserves.

[This message edited by sisoon at 6:04 PM, July 21st (Monday)]

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

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jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 12:14 AM on Tuesday, July 22nd, 2014

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RidingHealingRd ( member #33867) posted at 12:24 AM on Tuesday, July 22nd, 2014

I realized I cannot remember her name.

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^^How does that even happen?

I am 100% certain that I will never forget MOW name!

ME: 60 BS
HIM: 67 WH
Married: 35 years
D'Day: 10/29/10
in R 10 years and it's working but he is putting 200% into it (as he should) to make it right again.

The truth hurts, but I have never seen it cause the pain that lies do.

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sarahstar ( member #43889) posted at 12:27 AM on Tuesday, July 22nd, 2014

that must feel good

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