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threeofus posted 7/21/2014 19:35 PM

Is there a word to describe a person who cheats on their mate with mulitple people at the same time? I thought it may be serial cheater, but for some reason I think I am wrong. Help me out!

somanyyears posted 7/21/2014 19:45 PM


..how about 'sociopath' ???

..I can think of a few more but I'll leave those to your imagination

smy

totalheartbreak posted 7/21/2014 19:53 PM

broken.

deena04 posted 7/21/2014 20:17 PM

Sad, that comes to mind as it is sad how broken someone is and breaks their BS.

HurtingandLost posted 7/21/2014 20:32 PM

Seriously broken individual with zero boundaries. There are additional vulgar descriptions that would be appropriate that I will leave to your imagination

tryingmybest2011 posted 7/21/2014 21:28 PM

Philanderer?

SBB posted 7/21/2014 22:58 PM

In my case we called him "husband".

Serial cheater, philanderer, whore, FUBAR. cheataholic.

Salt posted 7/22/2014 00:34 AM

Sociopath

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/08/23/11-signs-dating-a-sociopath_n_3780417.html

Sad in AZ posted 7/22/2014 02:42 AM

That type is called a sex addict.

Ostrich80 posted 7/22/2014 02:44 AM

Womanizer for a wh, a ww? Idk . Habitual cheater plus a whole array of the usual bad words. I'd say most definitely a sociopath.

threeofus posted 7/22/2014 05:30 AM

Thanks for the responses everyone. I went to IC and was told that my ex BF is a sex addict. I found out he was cheating through his phone. There were text messages in there from around 30 women....I am not exaggerating! The messages indicated that there was actual sex, phone sex, planning to have sex, explicit pictures....etc. it all made me sick. Women from different States were in the phone. I learned from the phone that he was on at least two dating sites. My emotions are all over the place. I think I am still in shock. I shoild be crying constant, but I don't. I found this out about two weeks ago. Just feel numb most of the time.

How does a person manage that much at one time??????? Now I know why he stayed stressed so much.

heme posted 7/22/2014 06:00 AM

They don't really manage it, not in the sense that they care or or do anything for the other people involved. They use and move on to the next person. There is no emotion, compassion or even thought for the other person when you are talking about someone like that.

Ostrich80 posted 7/23/2014 02:59 AM

Wow you must be in horrible shock. That's a whole lot to digest. I may be out of line and forgive me of I overstep but this sounds more like a personality disorder. I.mean 30 different women. Does the ic think he/she can unravel this man and get to the root of his problem? I hope you can detach and focus on
yourself. If he gets help, more power to him but I would want to distance myself while he's doing it. Just take one day at a time to regain yourself individuallly. I'm so sorry this happened to you.

cosmicjoke posted 7/23/2014 03:41 AM

Sociopath.

william posted 7/23/2014 06:38 AM

my wife

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