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Topic: Types of Cheaters???
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threeofus
♀ 9242
Member # 9242 |  Posted: 7:35 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014 |     |
Is there a word to describe a person who cheats on their mate with mulitple people at the same time? I thought it may be serial cheater, but for some reason I think I am wrong. Help me out!
D-Day: 08-10-05
Married: 19 Years
Together : 20 Years
Kids: 24 Year Old Daughter
me: BS, 44
him: fWS, 42
D May 2010
Dated SO 3 Years
D Day 07 05 14
Boiled down to being with someone I could not trust or being alone twice.
Posts: 306 | Registered: Dec 2005 | From: maryland |
somanyyears
♂ 26970
Member # 26970 | | Posted: 7:45 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014 | |
..how about 'sociopath' ???
..I can think of a few more but I'll leave those to your imagination 
smy 
trust no other human- love only your pets
She isn't and never was who I thought..I can't believe who I married and what she did to us.
Me 69
Her 66
Married 45 yrs (together 49)
18 yr LTA with bff/lawyer.
. died from a brain tumor@57
Posts: 4880 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Ontario Canada |
totalheartbreak
♂ 41589
Member # 41589 | | Posted: 7:53 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014 | |
broken.
“You know hope is a mistake. If you can’t fix what’s broken, you’ll go insane.” - Max Rockatansky
The smart man divorces a lawyer.
The smarter man never marries one in the first place.
To her we were never worth the effort. :-/
Posts: 200 | Registered: Dec 2013 |
deena04
♀ 41741
Member # 41741 | | Posted: 8:17 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014 | |
Sad, that comes to mind as it is sad how broken someone is and breaks their BS.
Me FBS around 40
Him FWS early 40s (lovemywife4ever)
He cheated before M, forgot to tell me
"Free at last, free at last, thank God Almighty we are free at last" - MLK Jr
Posts: 2091 | Registered: Dec 2013 |
HurtingandLost
♂ 29322
Member # 29322 | | Posted: 8:32 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014 | |
Seriously broken individual with zero boundaries. There are additional vulgar descriptions that would be appropriate that I will leave to your imagination
Fbh
Posts: 1511 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: WI |
tryingmybest2011
♀ 32584
Member # 32584 | | Posted: 9:28 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014 | |
Philanderer?
BS: me - 40
WH: him - 40
DD: 11
DD: 3
Married over 12 years, together for 21.
DD#1: 12/12/10 - LTA of 3 years, 2 mos.
DD#2: 02/02/11 - 2 EA/PA with coworkers, a month after the LTA was ended (by OW).
Posts: 365 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: Ontario Canada |
SBB
♀ 35229
Member # 35229 | | Posted: 10:58 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014 | |
In my case we called him "husband".
Serial cheater, philanderer, whore, FUBAR. cheataholic.
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
Posts: 5996 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia |
Salt
♀ 43726
Member # 43726 | | Posted: 12:34 AM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014 | |
Sociopath
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/08/23/11-signs-dating-a-sociopath_n_3780417.html
BS, 55, Divorced
I read and walked for miles at night along the beach, writing bad blank verse and searching endlessly for someone wonderful who would step out of the darkness and change my life. It never crossed my mind that that person would be me.
Posts: 95 | Registered: Jun 2014 |
Sad in AZ
♀ 24239
Member # 24239 | | Posted: 2:42 AM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014 | |
That type is called a sex addict.
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-62
Him: WXH-62
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
Posts: 25027 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Arizona |
Ostrich80
34827
Member # 34827 | | Posted: 2:44 AM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014 | |
Womanizer for a wh, a ww? Idk . Habitual cheater plus a whole array of the usual bad words. I'd say most definitely a sociopath.
BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????
Posts: 5737 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest |
threeofus
♀ 9242
Member # 9242 | | Posted: 5:30 AM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014 | |
Thanks for the responses everyone. I went to IC and was told that my ex BF is a sex addict. I found out he was cheating through his phone. There were text messages in there from around 30 women....I am not exaggerating! The messages indicated that there was actual sex, phone sex, planning to have sex, explicit pictures....etc. it all made me sick. Women from different States were in the phone. I learned from the phone that he was on at least two dating sites. My emotions are all over the place. I think I am still in shock. I shoild be crying constant, but I don't. I found this out about two weeks ago. Just feel numb most of the time.
How does a person manage that much at one time??????? Now I know why he stayed stressed so much.
D-Day: 08-10-05
Married: 19 Years
Together : 20 Years
Kids: 24 Year Old Daughter
me: BS, 44
him: fWS, 42
D May 2010
Dated SO 3 Years
D Day 07 05 14
Boiled down to being with someone I could not trust or being alone twice.
Posts: 306 | Registered: Dec 2005 | From: maryland |
heme
♀ 40684
Member # 40684 | | Posted: 6:00 AM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014 | |
They don't really manage it, not in the sense that they care or or do anything for the other people involved. They use and move on to the next person. There is no emotion, compassion or even thought for the other person when you are talking about someone like that.
BS: Me (30)
WS: Husband (31)
Married 8 years, together 9
D-Day: Sept 10, 2013
D-Day2: May 31, 2014
Children: 5, ages 7, 5, 3, 1 and due in September
Leaning towards leaving, no one deserves this pain.
Posts: 205 | Registered: Sep 2013 |
Ostrich80
34827
Member # 34827 | | Posted: 2:59 AM, July 23rd (Wednesday), 2014 | |
Wow you must be in horrible shock. That's a whole lot to digest. I may be out of line and forgive me of I overstep but this sounds more like a personality disorder. I.mean 30 different women. Does the ic think he/she can unravel this man and get to the root of his problem? I hope you can detach and focus on
yourself. If he gets help, more power to him but I would want to distance myself while he's doing it. Just take one day at a time to regain yourself individuallly. I'm so sorry this happened to you.
BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????
Posts: 5737 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest |
cosmicjoke
♀ 39159
Member # 39159 | | Posted: 3:41 AM, July 23rd (Wednesday), 2014 | |
Sociopath.
Posts: 504 | Registered: May 2013 |
william
41986
Member # 41986 | | Posted: 6:38 AM, July 23rd (Wednesday), 2014 | |
my wife 
me - bh
her - lara01
from 09/11 - 05/13
2 ONS, 10 sexting partners, 1 LT EA/PA
??/06/13 DD/1 - admits to LT EA, begin false R.
01/13/14 DD/2 - LTA was PA.
01/18/14 DD/3 - sexting 5 guys.
01/19/14 DD/4 - 2 ONS with different guys
Posts: 1651 | Registered: Jan 2014 |
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