Hopefully he will respect your wishes and give you some space on that day. I didn't want to celebrate it... actually I still struggle with the actual day.
Making plans to leave town is not a bad idea if it's what you really want - are you planning something for yourself? Maybe a spa day or something...
(((deena04)))"Welcome the rawness of vulnerability as an opportunity to open." - Pema Chodron
Me: BW 35
Crazz: WH 33
Daughter: 4.5 Going on 16