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User Topic: Superwoman day!
♀ 16958
Member # 16958
Default  Posted: 2:31 AM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well it's late and I should be asleep but I keep thinking I had a superwoman day and wanted to post about it

-Got up at 7 with DS and fed him breakfast and played, out by 8:15 for doctor's appointment.
-Got back at 9:30 just in time for his Therapy session and team meeting till 12
-fed DS lunch then went to the courthouse in a looong line with DS on my hip to try and get CS garnished
- got back a bit after 2, took a nap with DS till almost 5
- 5-7 therapy, made DS a home cooked meal while participating
- 8 started bedtime routine with DS, put him to bed
- did the dishes and tidied the living room, wiped the kitchen down, paid bills
- exercised and then vacuumed and mopped

Of course a lot of my days off are crazy like this now. But I'm happy. Because I didn't have to clean up after Snake, soothe him, or argue with him about anything I did. I was just a single mom taking care of business.

Btw when I say I had a superwoman day it just means I heard this song in my head when I was getting tired :

Dedicating that to the real superwomen out there like NatureGirl....

Me (BS, 35); The Snake (WS, 36) 13yrs together; 1 baby boy (DOB 7/12)
Serial cheater-Multiple OWs, Multiple D-Days
D by default 5/3/14!
In house 8 mos, moved out 7/1!!!

Posts: 949 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: Northern California
♂ 38914
Member # 38914
Default  Posted: 4:43 AM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


My day started at around 7am. Woke up, got myself ready for school, and my kids ready for daycare.
9 am - 2pm: Time spent in school and driving back and forth.
2 pm - 4pm: Picked my kids up from the daycare to the doctor (my kids have been sick)
4 pm - 5pm : Went to pick up prescriptions from Walmart.
5pm - 7 pm : Played with my kids.
7pm - 8pm: Made and ate dinner.
8pm - 9pm: Bathed my kids and got them ready for bed.
9pm - 10 pm: Cleaned up. Took a shower.
10pm - 12am: Study/SI
After midnight: Bedtime

Bravos to all the hardworking single mothers!

D-day:2/24/13 (I was 10 weeks pregnant at the time and DS was 15 months)
Status: Parted ways!

"If only I can fight just a little longer, I know it's gonna make me stronger" Jamie Grace-Holding on.

Posts: 539 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Ohio
♀ 25204
Member # 25204
Default  Posted: 5:56 AM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome superwoman!!

During the school year, my schedule-work and kids events- keep me going from 6 in the morning until sometimes late at night.

One thing that I am sure most of us can relate to--my STBX could NEVER do or keep up with a schedule like this.

Here's a big hug to all of us that do this on a daily basis!! You rock!

Me: BW. 40's
Him: WH POS. 40's
2 kids. DD16, DS14

Don't let my user name fool you...I am NOT hopeful for us at ALL!!

Posts: 102 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: New York
♀ 43792
Member # 43792
Default  Posted: 8:19 AM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The good days will become the norm!!!

Posts: 533 | Registered: Jun 2014 | From: East coast
♀ 42092
Member # 42092
Default  Posted: 4:32 PM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome, CL

Sit. Feast on your life.

Posts: 4324 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
♀ 43871
Member # 43871
Default  Posted: 4:40 PM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You are all awesome. I've BTDT and I do have a much easier life now(still work FT but so different) but I remember those days like they were yesterday.

Strong, brave, Superwomen all of you.


BP(me) 53
WP (scumbag) 55
On-off for 32 years
Too many D Days to count. Same with OW.

Posts: 131 | Registered: Jun 2014 | From: UK
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