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Karmita posted 7/22/2014 13:36 PM


So, I'm at a work conference and this married man was giving me a lot of compliments, meanwhile hinting at how unhappy his marriage was.

I gave him enough rope to hang himself. Gave him a sympathetic ear and near the end of our "deep" discussion, I offered to call his wife and help them out with their problems.
I never saw a man run off so fast.

I guess he thought I'd console him in my hotel room as opposed to letting his wife know how unhappy he is the marriage.

Faithful w/Love posted 7/22/2014 13:39 PM

Every time I see these, I think "I wonder if it was my wh hitting on one of you here"..... I could only wish because what you did was LOVELY! I wish I could have been there to witness it! Proud of you girl!

healingroad posted 7/22/2014 13:48 PM

I offered to call his wife and help them out with their problems. I never saw a man run off so fast.

That is priceless. Superb.

Holly-Isis posted 7/22/2014 13:51 PM

Ick. Next time just ask to borrow his phone...maybe so you can input the number. Then call the wife instead and tell the poor woman her pig is trolling.

seethelight posted 7/22/2014 13:55 PM

I offered to call his wife and help them out with their problems.
I never saw a man run off so fast.

Karmita:

Excellent response and I will use it next time a married man hits on me.

Typically, I just give them a stern look, and hold up my wedding ring hand.

But your response has so much more impact.

It not only says no, but it says no way, don't even think about it.

Karmita posted 7/22/2014 14:02 PM


I scared the poop out of this trolling cheater. Sadly, some women fall for this.

JanaGreen posted 7/22/2014 14:45 PM

Hah! Love it!

Jeaniegirl posted 7/22/2014 15:49 PM

Since my XH met his OW while attending a
conference, I LOVE THIS. Sadly some women like the OW in my case - TROLL conferences for men.

Only once this has happened to me (being approached by obviously married man.) When he told me his name and where he was from, I said ...."what a small world! I think I know your wife!"

Good for you!

[This message edited by Jeaniegirl at 3:50 PM, July 22nd (Tuesday)]

TheIrishGirl posted 7/22/2014 16:51 PM

That is perfection. I am going to file it away for futur reference should it ever be needed.

brkn_heartd posted 7/22/2014 21:29 PM

What a wonderful response! Priceless!

gonnabe2016 posted 7/22/2014 22:14 PM

I would contact his wife and give her your sympathies for being in such an *unhappy* marriage....

Melian40 posted 7/23/2014 07:00 AM

Excellent Karmita!
You are one of my favorite members.

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