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cuppacoffee posted 7/22/2014 17:55 PM

We both go to the same office but have different therapists. I went today and was talking about the husband. Last week he told me he was going to kill himself in such a way that I was going to be covered in blood and brains and I would have that as my last memory of him. She called me an hour later and asked me to join in tomorrow.

I had a dream that I confronted the ow. S

cuppacoffee posted 7/22/2014 17:55 PM

Sometimes I want to call her to see her version of the story but I won't ever do it. I don't want to ever see her again.

I know he is the problem not her but I love him so it's easier to hate her. The therapist asked me today why I loved my husband and I couldn't give her an answer

[This message edited by cuppacoffee at 5:57 PM, July 22nd (Tuesday)]

homewrecked2011 posted 7/22/2014 21:09 PM

In my state, you can have him committed for saying he's going to kill himself. If he admits this infront of the therapist tomorrow,,, talk to the therapist ALONE -- call the therapist and tell them you want him taken to a hospital or treatment center immediately.

Here, I think they have to 2 stay for 1 week, I'm really not sure. I didn't know this when XWH was threatening suicide. They get so much help there!!! On SI a while back, a father picked up his daughter who was the WW and took her to a treatment center. She was helped and turned her life around...

I found out when I went to a treatment center outpatient therapy group, about how I could have had him put in there for 1 week. I KNOW it would have helped him.

[This message edited by homewrecked2011 at 9:12 PM, July 22nd (Tuesday)]