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Going to therapy with the husband

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 cuppacoffee (original poster member #39313) posted at 11:55 PM on Tuesday, July 22nd, 2014

We both go to the same office but have different therapists. I went today and was talking about the husband. Last week he told me he was going to kill himself in such a way that I was going to be covered in blood and brains and I would have that as my last memory of him. She called me an hour later and asked me to join in tomorrow.

I had a dream that I confronted the ow. S

I'm like a vacuum bag
That holds all that old dirt
Remember that time we said we'd be together forever?
Don't hate me, don't regret me, don't ever forget me
Wherever you go, whatever you do, don't say I never loved you

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 cuppacoffee (original poster member #39313) posted at 11:55 PM on Tuesday, July 22nd, 2014

Sometimes I want to call her to see her version of the story but I won't ever do it. I don't want to ever see her again.

I know he is the problem not her but I love him so it's easier to hate her. The therapist asked me today why I loved my husband and I couldn't give her an answer

[This message edited by cuppacoffee at 5:57 PM, July 22nd (Tuesday)]

I'm like a vacuum bag
That holds all that old dirt
Remember that time we said we'd be together forever?
Don't hate me, don't regret me, don't ever forget me
Wherever you go, whatever you do, don't say I never loved you

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homewrecked2011 ( member #34678) posted at 3:09 AM on Wednesday, July 23rd, 2014

In my state, you can have him committed for saying he's going to kill himself. If he admits this infront of the therapist tomorrow,,, talk to the therapist ALONE -- call the therapist and tell them you want him taken to a hospital or treatment center immediately.

Here, I think they have to 2 stay for 1 week, I'm really not sure. I didn't know this when XWH was threatening suicide. They get so much help there!!! On SI a while back, a father picked up his daughter who was the WW and took her to a treatment center. She was helped and turned her life around...

I found out when I went to a treatment center outpatient therapy group, about how I could have had him put in there for 1 week. I KNOW it would have helped him.

[This message edited by homewrecked2011 at 9:12 PM, July 22nd (Tuesday)]

Sometimes He calms the storm. Sometimes He lets the storm rage, but calms His child. Dday 12/19/11I went to an attorney and had him served. Shocked the hell out of him, with D papers, I'm proud to say!D final10/30/2012Me-55

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