Stupid stupid stupid!
I went to zillow.com and typed in her/their address. Lucky for me----->sarcasm---there were pictures of the inside of the house and the fantastic pool in the backyard. I was happy to see that the pool was gated due to dd can't swim.
It just makes me sick. I've never been a homeowner. I still rent a freaking apartment. They're luxury apartments, but still. What a blow.
But on a good note, I still realize I don't want him. If anything, I only want him to hurt her, if that's makes sense. But still. It all sucks. Why couldn't he have been the man he was for the 10 years that we were married?