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krsplat (original poster member #43242) posted at 1:47 PM on Thursday, July 24th, 2014
This is just a shout out to the hardworking admins, mods and guides who give up their time to make this website a safe space for us all to be, to talk, and to heal. Those who run this site put up with alot of ridiculous crap in order to make sure that there is a protected place here for all parties -- BSs, WSs and APs alike-- to let go of garbage we carry, without fear of being slammed (gentle, corrective 2x4s notwithstanding 
). That is not the case on every infidelity website.
I was realizing this morning what "safe haven" SI is for me, and want to make my gratitude public. So Deeply Scared, Meta, MangledHeart, authenticnow, jo2love, wifehad5, Jrazz, LosferWords, Moo and nowiknow23, thanks for being our SI angels. 
Me & WH: 50+, married 23 years, 4 kids, now D
DDay: 3/5/14, 7 yr LTA plus multiple ONS
Conclusion: Some things are just too broken to be fixed.
deena04 ( member #41741) posted at 2:00 PM on Thursday, July 24th, 2014
I agree! Thank you!!!!!!!!!!!
Me FBS 40s, Him XWS older than me (lovemywife4ever), D, He cheated before M, forgot to tell me. I’m free and loving life.
MovingUpward ( member #14866) posted at 2:20 PM on Thursday, July 24th, 2014
Thank you krsplat and deena
solus sto ( member #30989) posted at 2:24 PM on Thursday, July 24th, 2014
This really is a soul- and sanity-saving site. Not to be too alliterative about it
I am grateful for it every day.
BS-me, 62; X-irrelevant; we’re D & NC. "So much for the past and present. The future is called 'perhaps,' which is the only possible thing to call the future. And the important thing is not to let that scare you." Tennessee Williams
Ascendant ( member #38303) posted at 2:24 PM on Thursday, July 24th, 2014
Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 3:01 PM on Thursday, July 24th, 2014
Thank you!! That's really nice of you
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 5:43 PM on Thursday, July 24th, 2014
Thank you - that is so sweet.
I know we all feel lucky to be here and be able to help in this capacity.
(((krsplat)))
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
itainteasy ( member #31094) posted at 6:08 PM on Thursday, July 24th, 2014
True story!
Thanks guys.
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 7:13 PM on Thursday, July 24th, 2014
I'm always amazed at the loving quality of SI.
I've seen some other infidelity recovery sites, and the quality of the forums doesn't come close to SI. I can't believe their members are any better or worse than SI members are. The big difference between SI and the other sites, IMO, is the moderation and guidance.
DS and MH set SI up based on loving values and guidelines, and 'the staff' uses them to bring out the best in almost all of us.
Thanks, guys.
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 9:37 PM on Thursday, July 24th, 2014
I'll quintuple that!
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 10:10 PM on Thursday, July 24th, 2014
Thank you. I love that SI is truly one big, caring, we've got your back, no matter what the hour you are never alone, cry/laugh with you (got to love SPF), awesome family. 
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