Ok, so I caught my wh last summer by finding texts on his phone. It was awful. Truly the worst day of my life and then many more disclosures bc that was only 1 affair.
We were visiting my mom. This summer it is my mom's 80th birthday. We will be staying in her guest room AGAIN. How am I going to handle this?? Wh says he wants it to work, goes to sa, sees an ic etc. He is waaaaay short on empathy and is overwhelmed when I'm feeling triggered. Staying at a hotel is out of question bc of $$$ as this past year has put us several thousand in debt.
I can't not go to my mom's birthday, but I don't have to take him. He says he wants to go, but I know he will have trouble supporting me. Should I just leave him home??