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User Topic: His touch
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Member # 41522
Default  Posted: 1:45 PM, July 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My WS touch sickens me, I keep thinking of how he touched her. How can one reconcile when your husband sickens you? I just feel like I'm drowning and maybe R isn't in the cards for us. Today I want to die..He's an ER doctor and I just feel I'll never be able to trust him. He is trying so hard, he really is. But my heart is broken, I am broken.

Kids ages: 2 and 5
Married: 8 years
DDAY: Dec 1 2013
Affair: 2 months EA and PA
Status: Separted. Sigh...I wish I could forgive 😞

Update: attempting to reconcile

Posts: 313 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Canada
♂ 31240
Member # 31240
Default  Posted: 6:19 PM, July 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

With a 12/2013 d-day, your disgust may be normal, or it may be your final judgment.

Do you have someone IRL to talk this over with?

fBH (me) - 66 on d-day, Married 43, together 45 on d-day, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
Most of us know only our own experience. That's not enough data to support a general rule that D, or R, is right in every sitch.

Posts: 16807 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Illinois
Topic Posts: 2

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