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First Good Day in Weeks

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 Imabrokenman (original poster member #43886) posted at 4:51 AM on Saturday, July 26th, 2014

Today was a good day. The first good day with my beautiful BS in weeks.

Yesterday, I went to my attorney and mostly agreed to the settlement agreement that my BS put together. There were some very minor things that I want to change, but not the meat of the agreement. I called BS last night and told her. This seemed to lift a huge weight from her shoulders, and I think she may now focus on herself.

Today, she asked if I could meet her for dinner. I really wanted to, but thought we might want to wait until she can see the agreement in black and white so she knows I'm sincere, and told her. She was legitimately disappointed, so I immediately told her I would meet up.

We went out and had a nice dinner together. Some of the conversation was difficult, but I was just happy that we were talking civily with each other.

I still don't know how this will end up and if we will make it, but tonight was a good night with my best friend. I'm happy for the first time in a long time.

I just wanted to share with you all. One tiny victory. I'm ready for the long road ahead.

Me: WH (49)
Her: BW (48)
DDay 1: June 9, 2014
DDay 2: June 23, 2014
Married: 19 Years
No children

Currently living apart, unsure of reconciliation. In IC.

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Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 4:57 AM on Saturday, July 26th, 2014

Thank you so much for sharing this. It's a bittersweet victory, for sure.

Hoping for more good days for you both, however you get there.

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom

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