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User Topic: Watching me
♀ 41522
Member # 41522
Default  Posted: 6:48 PM, July 26th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Does anyone else WS constantly watch them? My husband is always looking at me, as if I might disappear. It starting to drive me crazy.

Kids ages: 2 and 5
Married: 8 years
DDAY: Dec 1 2013
Affair: 2 months EA and PA
Status: Separted. Sigh...I wish I could forgive 😞

Update: attempting to reconcile

Posts: 312 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Canada
♀ 35812
Member # 35812
Default  Posted: 10:08 PM, July 26th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yeah, it can be horribly irritating, can't it! Mine did, until he felt more secure that I would not just pack up and disappear. How is it between the two of you? Are you both in a more stable place?

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012

Posts: 6406 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
♀ 44136
Member # 44136
Default  Posted: 10:28 PM, July 26th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi andreal-yes, to see how I reacted on the things he said.

Posts: 106 | Registered: Jul 2014
♀ 41192
Member # 41192
Default  Posted: 10:41 PM, July 26th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We are separated in the same home right now, his choice, but yeah I catch him staring at me constantly and it's driving me nuts. What??

Me: 34 BS 2 boys (3 & 6)
Him: 35 EXWH, SA/NPD, Craigslist, porn, cam sites. EA/PA with disgusting co-worker troll
Too many DDays 9/13-1/15, too many chances to be a good man
Together 16 yrs, married 7yrs,
Divorced 2/11/15
I deserve to be the ONLY one

Posts: 1390 | Registered: Nov 2013
♀ 33523
Member # 33523
Default  Posted: 11:21 PM, July 26th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mine wouldn't, but he would riffle thru my office when I was at work. Caught him reading my journal and trying to get into my phone & email.

Is he trying to make you uncomfortable enough that you just leave?

Me: MH 40s
3/13: D'd

Fall 2015: happily in love with the RIGHT man
Everything is as it should be.

Posts: 881 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Vulcania
♀ 43568
Member # 43568
Default  Posted: 12:08 AM, August 2nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes, mine is always watching me, checking to see what I am thinking. Also checking what I am doing on my computer. Afraid I will find some evidence.

Me BS now BW, 55
Him WS now SH, 50
Together 18 years
No children (sadly couldn't have them)
DD April 2014, received letter from OW
a relationship the previous Dec 2013-Jan 2014, started by dating website.
TT 8/14
5/2015, DD2, discovered

Posts: 219 | Registered: May 2014
Topic Posts: 6

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