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User Topic: Watching me
AndreaL
♀ 41522
Member # 41522
Default  Posted: 6:48 PM, July 26th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Does anyone else WS constantly watch them? My husband is always looking at me, as if I might disappear. It starting to drive me crazy.


Me:35
Hubby:38
Kids ages: 2 and 5
Married: 8 years
DDAY: Dec 1 2013
Affair: 2 months EA and PA
Status: Separted. Sigh...I wish I could forgive 😞

Update: attempting to reconcile


Posts: 263 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Canada
Skan
♀ 35812
Member # 35812
Default  Posted: 10:08 PM, July 26th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yeah, it can be horribly irritating, can't it! Mine did, until he felt more secure that I would not just pack up and disappear. How is it between the two of you? Are you both in a more stable place?


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 5238 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
hopefulmom44
♀ 44136
Member # 44136
Default  Posted: 10:28 PM, July 26th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi andreal-yes, to see how I reacted on the things he said.

Posts: 105 | Registered: Jul 2014
Jls0320
♀ 41192
Member # 41192
Default  Posted: 10:41 PM, July 26th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We are separated in the same home right now, his choice, but yeah I catch him staring at me constantly and it's driving me nuts. What??


Me: 33 BS 2 boys (2yr & 5yr)
Him: 33 WH, sex addict, then 12 mos EA/2 mos PA with co-worker whore
Together 15yrs, married 7yrs
Dday 9/17/2014, 1/26/14, 7/28/14 broke NC, 8/7/14 (papers served that day) 2 mos PA began. Separated, R during divorce?

Posts: 528 | Registered: Nov 2013
Vulcanized
♀ 33523
Member # 33523
Default  Posted: 11:21 PM, July 26th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mine wouldn't, but he would riffle thru my office when I was at work. Caught him reading my journal and trying to get into my phone & email.

Is he trying to make you uncomfortable enough that you just leave?


Me: MH 40s; Him: MH 40s (I had RA)
OW: 30s, moron; one of many
M: 8 yrs
3/13: D'd
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Everything is as it should be.

Posts: 784 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Vulcania
Cordelia
♀ 43568
Member # 43568
Default  Posted: 12:08 AM, August 2nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes, mine is always watching me, checking to see what I am thinking. Also checking what I am doing on my computer. Afraid I will find some evidence.


Me 54, WS 49
17 yrs tog, no children.
DD 4/14 - OW wrote to me

Posts: 121 | Registered: May 2014
Topic Posts: 6

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