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User Topic: Motivational Monday
tryin2havefaith
♀ 37165
Member # 37165
Content  Posted: 7:09 AM, July 28th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Two to start off this beautiful Monday morning:


It takes a lot of strength and courage to put the past behind you and stand up and say: Ē I will not let it define me.Ē To push forward and create the life that you truly deserve.


Never try to convince somebody of your worth. If a person doesnít appreciate you, they donít deserve you. Respect yourself and be with people who truly value ďyouĒ!


ME- BS
HIM- WS
DDay 1/2011
4 - 6 months of TT'ing
Fully R'd
"Just as ripples spread out when a single pebble is dropped into water, the actions of individuals can have far-reaching effects. " -Dalai Lama

Posts: 265 | Registered: Oct 2012
SMSA925
♀ 43955
Member # 43955
Default  Posted: 7:54 AM, July 28th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love the idea of Motivational Monday. Today I saw a meme on my FB feed of a quote from Voltare: "Dont let yesterday take up too much of today". Trying that for today.


Me: BS; 55
Him: WH 61
Together 32 yrs, Married 20
DDay April 17, 2014

Posts: 162 | Registered: Jul 2014 | From: Phila. PA
Hopeful74
♀ 44003
Member # 44003
Default  Posted: 8:02 AM, July 28th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I went to a rascal flatts concert and found a new one that really touched me

'every time you get up and get back in the race, one more small piece of you starts to fall into place'.

I love that one!


Me: BW 39 Him:WH 37 (M)12 years; (T)18 years -2 DD: 17; 4; 1 DS: 9
Separated, headed for Divorce-he's not strong enough for me
'Everytime you get up and get back in the race, one more small piece of you starts to fall into place.' -

Posts: 319 | Registered: Jul 2014 | From: Hampton, VA
CATransplant
♀ 39567
Member # 39567
Default  Posted: 8:07 AM, July 28th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great Idea tryin2

Much needed on my end. So I have been chanting:

The way you treat yourself sets the standard for others on how you demand to be treated. Don't settle for anything other than respect. If they don,t respect, appreciate, and value you then they don't deserve you!

Thank you for reminding me that I am in charge of my outcome.


Me BS
H FWS
M 3/27/12 together since 06'
A EA/PA 4/19/13/5/26/13
DD 6/12/13
Forced NC 6/13/13
MOW coworker-caught,TT for six months.

Posts: 121 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: United States
tryin2havefaith
♀ 37165
Member # 37165
Default  Posted: 10:23 AM, July 28th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Be strong and know when enough is enough. Take your stand, speak up and refuse to let others hurt you. Throughout your lifetime some people will discredit you, disrespect you and treat you poorly for no apparent reason at all. Donít consume yourself with trying to change them or win their approval. And donít make any space in your heart to hate them. You donít have control over what others think about you, but you do have control over how you decide to internalize their opinions. Leave them to their own judgments. Let people love you for who you are, and not for who they want you to be. Or let them walk away if they choose. They canít harm you either way; itís their understanding that is faulty, not yours.


ME- BS
HIM- WS
DDay 1/2011
4 - 6 months of TT'ing
Fully R'd
"Just as ripples spread out when a single pebble is dropped into water, the actions of individuals can have far-reaching effects. " -Dalai Lama

Posts: 265 | Registered: Oct 2012
Topic Posts: 5

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