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tryin2havefaith (original poster member #37165) posted at 1:09 PM on Monday, July 28th, 2014
Two to start off this beautiful Monday morning:
It takes a lot of strength and courage to put the past behind you and stand up and say: ” I will not let it define me.” To push forward and create the life that you truly deserve.
Never try to convince somebody of your worth. If a person doesn’t appreciate you, they don’t deserve you. Respect yourself and be with people who truly value “you”!
ME- BS
HIM- WS
DDay 9/2011
G2HB
4-6 months of TT'ing
11/2012- Thanks for the HPV!!!
Fully R'd
"Just as ripples spread out when a single pebble is dropped into water, the actions of individuals can have far-reaching effects"-
SMSA925 ( member #43955) posted at 1:54 PM on Monday, July 28th, 2014
Love the idea of Motivational Monday. Today I saw a meme on my FB feed of a quote from Voltare: "Dont let yesterday take up too much of today". Trying that for today.
Me: BS; b. 1958
Him: WH b. 1952
Together since 1982, Married 20yrs at DDay#1
DDay April 17, 2014; DD#2 2/15
My ducks lined up, life is good!
Hopeful74 ( member #44003) posted at 2:02 PM on Monday, July 28th, 2014
I went to a rascal flatts concert and found a new one that really touched me
'every time you get up and get back in the race, one more small piece of you starts to fall into place'.
I love that one!
Me: BW
2 DD: 18 & 5; 1 DS: 10
Divorced May 2015
'Everytime you get up and get back in the race, one more small piece of you starts to fall into place.' -
CATransplant ( member #39567) posted at 2:07 PM on Monday, July 28th, 2014
Great Idea tryin2
Much needed on my end. So I have been chanting:
The way you treat yourself sets the standard for others on how you demand to be treated. Don't settle for anything other than respect. If they don,t respect, appreciate, and value you then they don't deserve you!
Thank you for reminding me that I am in charge of my outcome.
Me BS
H FWS
M 3/27/12 together since 06'
A EA/PA 4/19/13/5/26/13
DD 6/12/13
Forced NC 6/13/13
MOW coworker-caught,TT for six months.
tryin2havefaith (original poster member #37165) posted at 4:23 PM on Monday, July 28th, 2014
Be strong and know when enough is enough. Take your stand, speak up and refuse to let others hurt you. Throughout your lifetime some people will discredit you, disrespect you and treat you poorly for no apparent reason at all. Don’t consume yourself with trying to change them or win their approval. And don’t make any space in your heart to hate them. You don’t have control over what others think about you, but you do have control over how you decide to internalize their opinions. Leave them to their own judgments. Let people love you for who you are, and not for who they want you to be. Or let them walk away if they choose. They can’t harm you either way; it’s their understanding that is faulty, not yours.
ME- BS
HIM- WS
DDay 9/2011
G2HB
4-6 months of TT'ing
11/2012- Thanks for the HPV!!!
Fully R'd
"Just as ripples spread out when a single pebble is dropped into water, the actions of individuals can have far-reaching effects"-
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