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User Topic: Getting nowhere fast
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Member # 32240
Default  Posted: 7:50 AM, July 28th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We were are brunch yesterday and I was showing FWW my latest run on endomondo, a workout tracking app, and saw one of her latest workouts. There's a social media aspect to it and some guy Marcelo liked her last workout. So I started asking who was that. Turns out she didn't know who he was he just sent her a friend request and she accepted. WTF! She sensed that this was getting me upset so she started getting upset with me. Another WTF! This should be part of Good Boundaries 101. No men you don't know. Should also be Understanding You BS's Triggers 301, maybe the intermediate course.

I'm at the crossroads now. I just don't have the strength or the will to argue about the same shit that I believe with 100% of my being that FWW should already have a firm handle on.

I really don't want it to end but it feel like new pain every time she doesn't get it.

Me 41
fWW 37
DD(19), DS(17), DD(11) (Mine, hers, ours)
Together 14y, Married 12
DDay Aug 2010, 4 mos TT & gaslighting
ONS + EA after 15yr Class reunion out of state

Posts: 270 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Minnesota
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Member # 35619
Default  Posted: 9:03 AM, July 28th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yeah, her response doesn't make any sense at all.

D final 8/2012

Posts: 4335 | Registered: May 2012 | From: southeast
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Member # 36827
Default  Posted: 9:14 AM, July 28th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The fact that it escalates to arguing, is a very telling sign. You have what seem very valid concerns, she replies with anger...

FUCK HER and her non empathetic, it's all about me ass. Yep, just that bluntly. I have been there, and it will rip your soul apart if you stand for it. I hope you find anger, resolve, whatever it takes to get away from this situation. D sometimes is not a choice, it is the only option by virtue of circumstance. Good luck friend!

D-Day spring 2012
Me BS 48
Xcheater 45
One DD 20
Married 23 years
Divorced 12/23/13 Fu*king A!

The cruel, the unkind, those without honor, feast on the tender heart...

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