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stroppy_wanadoo posted 7/29/2014 09:54 AM

I've posted before about my best friend who died of breast cancer last August at age 40. And what a total alcoholic, lying, disgusting jackoff her husband is.

It has taken him almost a year to buy a headstone. He took off work twice during the spring to go do it, but ended up golfing and drinking with buddies instead. After being prompted by her sisters to do it (they offered to do it instead, but he didn't want to give them access to the money set aside for it - likely because it isn't all there... but I digress), he finally ordered one.

I don't talk to this asshat anymore, but my sister-in-law does. He sent her a picture of the headstone. Not only is his name on it, too (why would he want to be buried by her? He moved his girlfriend in THE WEEK AFTER SHE DIED. Plus - there is NO PLOT AVAILABLE anywhere around her...), but her birthday is wrong. Sure, he got the date and year correct. But he told them February instead of March. And when it was pointed out to him by my sister-in-law, he said "What am I supposed to do? It's already done and being set this week."

I hate him. I really have nothing but contempt and disgust for him. I am sure somehow this will get fixed, but that's not the point. Why does he continue to disrespect her so much in death? Didn't he do enough of that when she was alive?

EvenKeel posted 7/29/2014 10:03 AM

Wow - that is awful.

I am sure somehow this will get fixed, but that's not the point.

I hope so but I am not so sure it will be. Doesn't sound like it was a big priority for him.

As you know - there is no changing what he is, does or will do.

All you can do is just keep honoring your BF's memory your own way.

metamorphisis posted 7/29/2014 10:06 AM

That's horrible.

JanaGreen posted 7/29/2014 10:07 AM

That's just sick. I'm so sorry.

Myname posted 7/29/2014 10:08 AM

I'm just sitting here shaking my head. I don't even know where to start.

I hope it does get fixed but like Evenkeel said, it wasn't a priority before so I'm not sure it will be a priority now.

norabird posted 7/29/2014 11:22 AM

How awful. I'm so sorry. (((stroppy & BF))))

jrc1963 posted 7/29/2014 12:30 PM

Complete AssHat!!

I'm so sorry Stroppy

brokeninfl posted 7/29/2014 12:58 PM

wow. that is....just beyond horrific.

I'm so so sorry stroopy.

jo2love posted 7/29/2014 13:03 PM

That is awful. I'm sorry.

asurvivor posted 7/29/2014 13:08 PM

I read some of these posts and it really challenges my faith in humanity. This is one big ass prick.

courageous posted 7/29/2014 13:17 PM

Wow what a piece of shit he is. I hope he gets all that is coming to him.

stroppy_wanadoo posted 7/29/2014 13:37 PM

Thank you all for the support. I needed someone to get mad at him with me today.

As far as how I know it will get fixed, well, I am certain her sisters won't stand for it. While they let him drag his feet on getting a stone, they won't let it rest that way. Even if it means buying one themselves. And I really don't think in the end he'd fight them to get a corrected one in (as long as his name is on it, and he doesn't have to pay for it).

Come to think of it, his name doesn't look too awful on a headstone. (I am so sorry, God. That was a horrible thing to say! But I'm not taking it back just yet.)

tushnurse posted 7/29/2014 14:42 PM

What a useless pile of shit.

I hope your dear friend is haunting him and making his life torture.

You know making his wanker limp, and his girlfriend grow big old nasty man hairs out her nose, on her chin, and back.

I am sorry that your friend isn't getting the respect she deserves.

k94ever posted 7/29/2014 16:48 PM

Because in the end it really is all about him.

I'm sorry for your friend and her sisters.

k9

Pentup posted 7/29/2014 21:27 PM

I have thought of this all day. It makes ME want to kick his a$$. with you

thebighurt posted 7/31/2014 10:34 AM

I just saw this. How awful! Maybe, if he lets her sisters get a new one and demands his name be on it too, they can put a date of death for him in the not-too-distant future.....? Maybe that would wake him up to the disrespect.

I know.... I know.... But I couldn't resist.

kiki1 posted 7/31/2014 10:39 AM

(((stroppy)))

Maybe the sisters will replace it and keep his name OFF it!!! What an ass.

I'm sure hoping so,,,,,,,,,

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