Fuck that guy. Good luck with the lawyer.
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Me: BW 35
Crazz: WH 33
Daughter: 4.5 Going on 16
He had a choice, which alot of WS dont get. He made the wrong choice. Thats on him. Good luck with the lawyer, and with your future