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Jls0320 posted 7/29/2014 23:42 PM

My WH and I have been sort of separated for over a week now in house while he "figures out his head", which I find out today means breaking NC with his EAP and visiting her at work at 6:30 am for the past 2 days. He just needed to talk....supposedly had maintained NC since February but just this week went to see her. He is not remorseful and has done nothing for months to repair our marriage. Thank goodness I had a tracker and looked it up today since he planned to not tell me, I am so thankful for my gut that doesn't believe his never ending lies and bullshit. Meeting with lawyer tomorrow, done done done :(

healingroad posted 7/29/2014 23:53 PM

He can figure out his head far away from you. What bullshit. Unbelievable.

Fuck that guy. Good luck with the lawyer.

Jrazz posted 7/30/2014 00:05 AM

(((Jls0320)))

Stay strong, girl. We've got your back.

FixYou71 posted 7/30/2014 03:33 AM

(((Jls0320)))
Clearly he doesn't deserve you and you don't deserve his BS.
I'm sorry. Take care of you.

SMSA925 posted 7/30/2014 10:23 AM

{{{Jls0320}}}

He had a choice, which alot of WS dont get. He made the wrong choice. Thats on him. Good luck with the lawyer, and with your future

Jls0320 posted 7/30/2014 10:52 AM

When I asked him if he thought about the choice he was making and that I would most likely find out, he said yes it was a risk he was willing to make :(. He's a manipulative, self absorbed, pathological liar. He's already trying to Hoover me, I've just pretended he doesn't exist until I can get him out. OW has nothing on me, but if he wants someone just like him, he found her! I'm so disgusted in him, sad I could have already been divorced but believed his lies earlier this year, not anymore....