Wiser people than me will have ideas but my thoughts are that, first, it might help to go by yourself and have a good vomitcry without you son. And second, after doing that, it might help to do something to reclaim it. Maybe have a pincic there or something to claim it as yours and your son's.
My husband has had sex with hookers a whole bunch of places but I have decided to claim the ones that are special to me as MINE. I'm not giving his affair the power to taint a park or church or place I love. It's taken awhile but that's been my path.
6 years of TT, hidden STD & false R
Separated 5 mos+; he will not commit
Someday I will be okay
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I do know how you feel,,, XWH and OW were in my house for a year. I'm assuming they've been on my table, pool table, sofa, tub, my bed, kids beds, etc.
I had to decide - like my friend who had robbers in her home --- were they going to control me and run me off, or was I going to be in control of the situation.
The more happy memories you and your child make there, the more bad ones will begin to fade into the past....
I was anxious. It was probably a combo of getting the limited edition item I wanted and knowing this is where they met eye-to-eye before driving across the road to a hotel.
After I made my purchase, I went to the coffee lounge section and had a latte. I sat there imagining what took place and just felt very sad. I didn't tremble, I didn't get teary eyed, I just was overwhelmed by a sense of sadness.
Now that I overcame this hurdle, I know I can shop there again. Hopefully you will also be able to move past what took place at the park.
D-Day 6/1/16 Caught him back online early enough that no physical contact took place but still devastating. This sucks.