Do NOT have sex with this man. Even if it means he runs to OW. Let him go, honey. You will not stoop to the level of trading sex for *anything*. Do you hear me?
Have you consulted an atty? Once I filed for D, my WH was not able to drop me from his insurance (not that I think he would have).
Get to an atty. I don't know your backstory, but I'm sorry to hear about the health concerns it sounds like you have.
It's going to be ok.
ETA: I think I put my mom voice on there for a minute. Sorry. What I meant to say was: I don't recommend you stoop to the level of trading sex for anything. It will set a precedent that will be hard to break going forward and will keep you trapped and immobilized in the relationship.
[This message edited by nekorb at 8:18 AM, July 31st (Thursday)]