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Topic: Should've kept my mouth shut

Sleepingbeauty
♀ 43792
Member # 43792

Posted: 5:31 AM, July 31st (Thursday), 2014

Yesterday was my birthday and I spent most of it in tears. Mostly because my call from father never came and ever will again. Rough day.

Of course when I got home STBXH had taken the stupid dog The night I could've used a little doggy kiss.

Well after not sleeping last night, this mmrning he walks out to his truck just laughing and giiglig with ho bag. I couldn't help myself and said good morning***** you ho bag. My stupid STBXH says to her ***** says good morning. What a dumb ass. Of course if I had just bit y tongue I would be bleeding but not pissed off.

Posts: 533 | Registered: Jun 2014 | From: East coast

nekorb
♀ 40306
Member # 40306

Posted: 7:14 AM, July 31st (Thursday), 2014

I'm sorry. Was it your first birthday since your dad passed away?

As for STBXH, I would have been tempted to say - you forgot HO BAG....and I would have said it loud enough for the HO to hear it!

But yes, next time, shields up and don't throw him any bones. Are you doing in house separation? Why were you even around to hear this convo?

Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 M - 22 Years
D-day: 7/2013; D filed 7/2014; Divorced 7-27-16
...the WS affair starts off in a dreamland where everything is all Golly, Wow! and Meant To Be! and Soul Mates drop from the trees to frolic in the mist. -devotedman

Posts: 5578 | Registered: Aug 2013

newlysingle
♀ 38735
Member # 38735

Posted: 8:21 AM, July 31st (Thursday), 2014

Is he bringing this slut into your house?!

I'm sorry you had a rough day/night. Happy Birthday!

BW - Me (40)
XWH -The Gnat
"Engaged" to OW, but the wedding appears to be indefinitely postponed.
M for 8 years, together for 10
1 DD (8), 1 DS (3)
Dday 3/13
Happily Divorced 9/20/13

Posts: 1262 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: AZ

southsidecali
♀ 22752
Member # 22752

Posted: 1:38 PM, July 31st (Thursday), 2014

Im sorry they are douchebags..

Happy birthday!! go and do something relaxing, even if its sitting at a park and people watch!

Posts: 989 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: CA

hopefulmom44
♀ 44136
Member # 44136

Posted: 1:58 PM, July 31st (Thursday), 2014

Sleepingbeauty-

Happy Birthday! Go do something special for yourself. Watch a movie, get a mani/pedi or massage. Take pics of nature. Something that will make you feel what you are. A very special person!

Posts: 106 | Registered: Jul 2014

deena
♀ 27275
Member # 27275

Posted: 2:29 PM, July 31st (Thursday), 2014

HAPPY BIRTHDAY Sleeping Beauty!!!!

Sorry it had to be ruined by two douche bags.

I am so sorry it brought a reminder of your dad not being there with you. But he is there with you....he is!!

Two quotes that got sent my way recently I will share with you

To Dad,
Remembering you is easy, I do it every day. Missing you is the heartache that never goes away

"A woman's strength isn't just about how much she can handle before she breaks.
It's about how much she must handle after she is broken"

You will find your strength Sleeping Beauty. You just need to give your self some down time to recoup after all you have been thru lately.

SI will prop you up until you find that strength!

Relationships are like glass. Sometimes it's
better to leave them broken than to hurt
yourself putting it back together.

Posts: 3268 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Canada

Sleepingbeauty
♀ 43792
Member # 43792

Posted: 4:55 PM, August 2nd (Saturday), 2014

Thank you all. No we are not doing an in house separation but we have a detached garage apt and he is out there. I have a feeling he is sneaking her out there but I have not actually caught them but again I am not trying. I am doing my best to move o just some days are set backs.

Posts: 533 | Registered: Jun 2014 | From: East coast

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