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Sleepingbeauty (original poster member #43792) posted at 11:31 AM on Thursday, July 31st, 2014
Yesterday was my birthday and I spent most of it in tears. Mostly because my call from father never came and ever will again. Rough day.
Of course when I got home STBXH had taken the stupid dog The night I could've used a little doggy kiss.
Well after not sleeping last night, this mmrning he walks out to his truck just laughing and giiglig with ho bag. I couldn't help myself and said good morning***** you ho bag. My stupid STBXH says to her ***** says good morning. What a dumb ass. Of course if I had just bit y tongue I would be bleeding but not pissed off.
nekorb ( member #40306) posted at 1:14 PM on Thursday, July 31st, 2014
I'm sorry. Was it your first birthday since your dad passed away?
As for STBXH, I would have been tempted to say - you forgot HO BAG....and I would have said it loud enough for the HO to hear it!
But yes, next time, shields up and don't throw him any bones. Are you doing in house separation? Why were you even around to hear this convo?
Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 M - 22 Years
D-day: 7/2013; D filed 7/2014; Divorced 7-27-16
...the WS affair starts off in a dreamland where everything is all Golly, Wow! and Meant To Be! and Soul Mates drop from the trees to frolic in the mist. -devotedman
newlysingle ( member #38735) posted at 2:21 PM on Thursday, July 31st, 2014
Is he bringing this slut into your house?!
I'm sorry you had a rough day/night. Happy Birthday!
BW - Me (40)
XWH -The Gnat
"Engaged" to OW, but the wedding appears to be indefinitely postponed.
M for 8 years, together for 10
1 DD (8), 1 DS (3)
Dday 3/13
Happily Divorced 9/20/13
southsidecali ( member #22752) posted at 7:38 PM on Thursday, July 31st, 2014
Im sorry they are douchebags..
Happy birthday!! go and do something relaxing, even if its sitting at a park and people watch!
hopefulmom44 ( member #44136) posted at 7:58 PM on Thursday, July 31st, 2014
Sleepingbeauty-
Happy Birthday! Go do something special for yourself. Watch a movie, get a mani/pedi or massage. Take pics of nature. Something that will make you feel what you are. A very special person!
deena ( member #27275) posted at 8:29 PM on Thursday, July 31st, 2014
HAPPY BIRTHDAY Sleeping Beauty!!!!
Sorry it had to be ruined by two douche bags.
I am so sorry it brought a reminder of your dad not being there with you. But he is there with you....he is!!
Two quotes that got sent my way recently I will share with you
To Dad,
Remembering you is easy, I do it every day. Missing you is the heartache that never goes away
"A woman's strength isn't just about how much she can handle before she breaks.
It's about how much she must handle after she is broken"
You will find your strength Sleeping Beauty. You just need to give your self some down time to recoup after all you have been thru lately.
SI will prop you up until you find that strength!
Relationships are like glass. Sometimes it's
better to leave them broken than to hurt
yourself putting it back together.
Sleepingbeauty (original poster member #43792) posted at 10:55 PM on Saturday, August 2nd, 2014
Thank you all. No we are not doing an in house separation but we have a detached garage apt and he is out there. I have a feeling he is sneaking her out there but I have not actually caught them but again I am not trying. I am doing my best to move o just some days are set backs.
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