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Sleepingbeauty posted 7/31/2014 05:31 AM

Yesterday was my birthday and I spent most of it in tears. Mostly because my call from father never came and ever will again. Rough day.

Of course when I got home STBXH had taken the stupid dog The night I could've used a little doggy kiss.

Well after not sleeping last night, this mmrning he walks out to his truck just laughing and giiglig with ho bag. I couldn't help myself and said good morning***** you ho bag. My stupid STBXH says to her ***** says good morning. What a dumb ass. Of course if I had just bit y tongue I would be bleeding but not pissed off.

nekorb posted 7/31/2014 07:14 AM

I'm sorry. Was it your first birthday since your dad passed away?

As for STBXH, I would have been tempted to say - you forgot HO BAG....and I would have said it loud enough for the HO to hear it!

But yes, next time, shields up and don't throw him any bones. Are you doing in house separation? Why were you even around to hear this convo?

newlysingle posted 7/31/2014 08:21 AM

Is he bringing this slut into your house?!

I'm sorry you had a rough day/night. Happy Birthday!

southsidecali posted 7/31/2014 13:38 PM

Im sorry they are douchebags..

Happy birthday!! go and do something relaxing, even if its sitting at a park and people watch!

hopefulmom44 posted 7/31/2014 13:58 PM

Sleepingbeauty-

Happy Birthday! Go do something special for yourself. Watch a movie, get a mani/pedi or massage. Take pics of nature. Something that will make you feel what you are. A very special person!

deena posted 7/31/2014 14:29 PM

HAPPY BIRTHDAY Sleeping Beauty!!!!

Sorry it had to be ruined by two douche bags.

I am so sorry it brought a reminder of your dad not being there with you. But he is there with you....he is!!

Two quotes that got sent my way recently I will share with you

To Dad,
Remembering you is easy, I do it every day. Missing you is the heartache that never goes away

"A woman's strength isn't just about how much she can handle before she breaks.
It's about how much she must handle after she is broken"

You will find your strength Sleeping Beauty. You just need to give your self some down time to recoup after all you have been thru lately.

SI will prop you up until you find that strength!

Sleepingbeauty posted 8/2/2014 16:55 PM

Thank you all. No we are not doing an in house separation but we have a detached garage apt and he is out there. I have a feeling he is sneaking her out there but I have not actually caught them but again I am not trying. I am doing my best to move o just some days are set backs.