Hang in there Mo. Sounds like you are doing all the right things.
I truly no longer believe there is such a thing as amicable divorce, especially when infidelity is involved. (First attorney i talked with told me she's never been part of an amicable divorce.)
They change. After the infidelity, you'd think i would be the one being shitty to her, but it is the opposite. All of the anger and ugliness in the process has come from her side of the street.
She doesn't understand why i am NC. She thinks i'm being PA. She doesn't understand why i am not friendly with someone who betrayed me and lied to me over and over. "We need to remain friends for the kids' sake." i think that is bullshit, though. i will be civil, but we are NOT friends. i would be setting a poor example for my boys.
Continue to take the high-road Mo. it is lonely sometimes, but it is better than the other side. At least that's what i keep telling myself.