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Must Survive (original poster member #34533) posted at 5:23 PM on Thursday, July 31st, 2014
I found this helpful today.
http://themindunleashed.org/2014/07/10-toxic-relationships-mentally-strong-people-avoid.html
Me BS
WS: Just a squished bug on the window of my life!
Divorced-Let my new beginning start
They have a choice: they can live in my new world, or they can die in their old one." — Daenerys Targaryen
ProbableIceCream ( member #37468) posted at 6:01 PM on Thursday, July 31st, 2014
"When someone you’re in a relationship with continues to blame you for your past mistakes, your relationship is toxic."
Sound familiar?
dignityintact ( member #32558) posted at 8:39 AM on Friday, August 1st, 2014
Thank you for posting this....interesting read, and sadly I can identify with a lot of those traits with my xh.
"Sometimes on the way to the dream, you get a lost and find a better one"
Divorcing - at last!
stronger08 ( member #16953) posted at 12:08 PM on Friday, August 1st, 2014
If you’re covering up your tracks in any way, it’s only a matter of time before the truth is revealed and trust in the relationship is broken.
Amen !!!!!!! I also liked #9 the emotional blackmail part. I see it here over and over again where the WS emotionally blackmails the BS into allowing A behaviors to be tolerated.
You cant eat soup with chopsticks.
phmh ( member #34146) posted at 12:55 PM on Friday, August 1st, 2014
Great article! And then at the end I saw it was written by one of the creators of marcandangel.com. No wonder I liked it so much!
These definitely are things that I will strive to do in my next relationship, and things that I have been doing with my friend relationships.
Thanks for sharing!
Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!
Married: 11 years, no kids
Character is destiny
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