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Must Survive posted 7/31/2014 11:23 AM

I found this helpful today.

http://themindunleashed.org/2014/07/10-toxic-relationships-mentally-strong-people-avoid.html

ProbableIceCream posted 7/31/2014 12:01 PM

"When someone you’re in a relationship with continues to blame you for your past mistakes, your relationship is toxic."

Sound familiar?

dignityintact posted 8/1/2014 02:39 AM

Thank you for posting this....interesting read, and sadly I can identify with a lot of those traits with my xh.

stronger08 posted 8/1/2014 06:08 AM

If you’re covering up your tracks in any way, it’s only a matter of time before the truth is revealed and trust in the relationship is broken.

Amen !!!!!!! I also liked #9 the emotional blackmail part. I see it here over and over again where the WS emotionally blackmails the BS into allowing A behaviors to be tolerated.

phmh posted 8/1/2014 06:55 AM

Great article! And then at the end I saw it was written by one of the creators of marcandangel.com. No wonder I liked it so much!

These definitely are things that I will strive to do in my next relationship, and things that I have been doing with my friend relationships.

Thanks for sharing!