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Dinner and a Face Palm

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 Chefj9 (original poster member #38604) posted at 6:20 PM on Thursday, July 31st, 2014

So today is the one year mark from when the Bunny Boiler antics finally stopped. I reminded SAWH what day it was... and his response?? Wait for it...

"We should go to dinner"

I am stunned. Go to dinner??? To celebrate???

Ya, lets mark this day as a special occasion to celebrate a year of being ripped to shreds, devastated, turned upside down, physically ill for months, lost half my hair, crying my eyes out, and basically looking over my shoulder waiting for the other shoe to drop and for cray cray to rear her ugly head again...

Yay me! Let's drink and eat to that. After all according to him, "it was a lifetime ago"

ME - BS 50, Him - WS 46 trying to "R"
4 DD's - blended 26,16, 15 and 13
Multi DDays the grand finale 5/13/2013
From here on out, I am only interested in what is real. Real people, real feelings, that's it, that's all I'm intere

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steadfast1973 ( member #24719) posted at 6:48 PM on Thursday, July 31st, 2014

July 12th was the 5 year anniversary of the last contact with EAP (directly, my MIL made contact on her behalf over Christmas... The anniversary of their mutual friend's death... Which is what she used to make initial contact 5 years ago.) i celebrate the fuck out her being out of our lives.

THat may have been what he meant. I never know how things are going to affect me from day to day, though. I'm dreading the dday2 antiversary...

Me- 42- BS Him- 38- WH D-day#1 5/25/09 multi EAs, likely PA, trickle truth, d-day#2 11/06/13 Prostitute Separated 1/2017
"I've seen your flag on the marble arch, our love is not a victory march, it's a cold and broken hallelujah"

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 Chefj9 (original poster member #38604) posted at 7:45 PM on Thursday, July 31st, 2014

Yes I'm sure he meant that we should be celebrating her departure. I guess today I'm not feeling that so much. If hadn't promised her a future and marriage while he was STILL MARRIED TO ME I'd feel differently. I didn't ask for her in my life and wasn't given a choice about her.

Instead it just ticked me off.

ME - BS 50, Him - WS 46 trying to "R"
4 DD's - blended 26,16, 15 and 13
Multi DDays the grand finale 5/13/2013
From here on out, I am only interested in what is real. Real people, real feelings, that's it, that's all I'm intere

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Didact ( member #42867) posted at 11:44 PM on Thursday, July 31st, 2014

Never yet found a bad reason to go out.

No matter how painful, life either adapts or it dies.

BH (Me) 49
WW 48
Married 1985
D-Day Mar 19, 2014
1 year passionate EA/PA, ended by me on d-day.
Attempting to R

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