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steppingup posted 7/31/2014 12:40 PM

See if this helps any. I found it fasinating.

https://docs.google.com/presentation/d/1gdzACBifqxKbi80-iQw9m6aEFjLsl4rxWdmXqEBwn8c/present?pli=1&ueb=true#slide=id.g35893e3a6_00

http://alphagameplan.blogspot.com/2011/03/socio-sexual-hierarchy.html

http://theredpillroom.blogspot.com/p/the-red-pill-primer-for-boys.html


[This message edited by steppingup at 12:42 PM, July 31st (Thursday)]

seethelight posted 7/31/2014 13:03 PM

Steppingup:

I think you are gonna' get yourself in trouble with the wrong type of woman, if you follow this advice.

I know women who would respond to this type of manipulation and their tact is to counter attack with ever more manipulation.

Or, as they say, let the guy think he is winning.

You don't want a women who would fall for this game, or who would be interested in a man who plays this game because only someone who is better at this game will stick around and be happy.

Good relationships are not about manipulating each other.

steppingup posted 7/31/2014 13:19 PM

I totally agree, what I didnt say is I think my WW responded to all this BS with her APs, namely I married a "keeper"

If a BH wants to R, think about how his WW responds, if she responds to this, then she is like the women who likes games and manipulation.

I know my WW likes to be seduced, and it sickens me to death!

[This message edited by steppingup at 1:20 PM, July 31st (Thursday)]

SadFlower posted 7/31/2014 13:23 PM

This is the most horrendous piece of sexist crap I've read in a long time.

seethelight posted 7/31/2014 13:28 PM

If a BH wants to R, think about how his WW responds, if she responds to this, then she is like the women who likes games and manipulation.

Oh, okay. Thank you for the clarification and glad to hear you realize that.

I know my WW likes to be seduced, and it sickens me to death!

I am sorry to hear that. Some people like this, who need constant focus on themselves, and "winning the game" can be helped with individual counseling, sometimes.

steppingup posted 7/31/2014 13:32 PM

In speaking with my IC and her IC, seems my WW is nothing more than a hurt child looking to play games, its all about the games and delusions...its so sick and twisted, when I came across this pseudo male programming, I immediately recognized things she talked about that she (WW) was responding to.

it is the "EMOTIONAL IMMATURITY". Nothing more.

its really gross, and unnatual for me, I could never behaive like this but I DO THINK MANY AP (MALES) act like this and get reponses from WS (FEMALES) that want to live in the land of RAINBOWS AND UNICORNS.

seethelight posted 7/31/2014 13:39 PM

I DO THINK MANY AP (MALES) act like this and get reponses from WS (FEMALES) that want to live in the land of RAINBOWS AND UNICORNS.

Yes, I think People who look for affairs, in general, may have a higher affinity for this type of manipulative game playing.

I Think they confuse it with indicating their self worth.

I hope counseling helps your wife. It can sometimes.

seethelight posted 7/31/2014 13:39 PM

I DO THINK MANY AP (MALES) act like this and get reponses from WS (FEMALES) that want to live in the land of RAINBOWS AND UNICORNS.

Yes, I think People who look for affairs, in general, may have a higher affinity for this type of manipulative game playing.

I Think they confuse it with indicating their self worth.

I hope counseling helps your wife. It can sometimes.

Razor posted 7/31/2014 13:42 PM

I have no respect for any man or woman that sees their relationship as some kind of power struggle game.

Seems manipulative to me. And a manipulator never has respect for those they manipulate.

steppingup posted 7/31/2014 15:27 PM

Razor, you hit the nail on the head, "RESPECT", if a potential Wayward had more respect for their spouse and themselves, they would never drag us into this nightmare.

tearingaway posted 7/31/2014 15:29 PM

This is the "women want a bad boy" propaganda.

Quite honestly, I have known lots of women who just adore men who treat them poorly. I think it works the other way around, too. It's all very sad.

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