I have handled tons of pain, confusion, and have worked hard to move on, etc etc since last year. Kept my integrity, straight and narrow and focused (call me boring ya ya). So lately one day, I decided I need a mini break. So innocently went outta town to hang with some old friends and just chill. Did nothing wrong, except traveled a few hours from home. Came home and life carries on. BUT, I then hear thru the grapevine that STBX was actually questioning my getaway and the people I saw. So you mean suddenly, there's RULES!!?? Holy man! So, she can lie to everyone around her, cheat (adultery to no end), be selfish, become "soulmates", parent thru text messages, get ass fucked in hotels while telling her family she's doing work related things, go on vacations with the loser, be irresponsible, get engaged to him and do WHATEVER THE FUCK SHE WANTS WHENEVER SHE WANTS. (Much much more but it would cover at least 100 pages). There were no rules then or there!! Yet I step outta the house for a whole 3 days, and she questions it behind my back!? Stunning, just stunning. Sick sick human being.
Thank you for the opportunity to vent SI. I needed that. But now it's in the past, and it actually makes me laugh!
This once again verifies that this is a sick person I was married to. Obviously her dream was to run off on me and live this Grande life with her facebook "soulmate". She's got what she wants, right? Or wait, She wants more? She wants to meddle in OTHERS' lives!? Not enuf up-the-Bleep sex anymore? Things gettin a lil boring at the homewrecker hotel? Is the new diamond ring not shiny enough? Actually, I could care less about her opinions. My main beef is Just Leave Me Alone Already!!
OK, thats two vents, lol.
Of course, she was dating before we broke up, and introduced a boyfriend to the kids a couple months after that. When I mentioned this to her, "Oh, did I say that? Tee hee hee!"
Dude, fuck her and the piece of shit she rode in on (or that rode in on her?). You now have MY permission to do whatever'n fuck you want - and my opinion should matter AT LEAST as much as hers.
[This message edited by Pass at 3:22 PM, July 31st, 2014 (Thursday)]
The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous
The poor thing deflated quite a bit there..
Could happen to a nicer receiver..