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Difference between the 2 R's
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Reallyscared posted 7/31/2014 17:13 PM
What exactly is the difference between the two R's? I've chosen to stay...I am trying to accept that this is our new normal...we don't fight...there is a lot of love.
But I don't know if we are in recovery or reconciliation...how do I know where we are. You all seem so sure!
Morhurt posted 7/31/2014 20:20 PM
I've never considered this question before but perhaps recovery is personal and reconciliation is marital. Does that make sense? You can (and will) recover no matter what, but reconciliation is a choice you both have to make. :)
Reallyscared posted 7/31/2014 21:24 PM
I just hear so many people say that they are reconciled but not fully recovered or the other way around...
It's confusing to me...but what you said made sense. I guess we are reconciling and recovering still. Just so difficult to figure out just what stage we're in.
Giving time time is proving to be difficult...
Hugs and thanks!
[This message edited by Reallyscared at 9:25 PM, July 31st (Thursday)]