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Reallyscared posted 7/31/2014 17:13 PM

What exactly is the difference between the two R's? I've chosen to stay...I am trying to accept that this is our new normal...we don't fight...there is a lot of love.

But I don't know if we are in recovery or reconciliation...how do I know where we are. You all seem so sure!

Morhurt posted 7/31/2014 20:20 PM

I've never considered this question before but perhaps recovery is personal and reconciliation is marital. Does that make sense? You can (and will) recover no matter what, but reconciliation is a choice you both have to make. :)

Reallyscared posted 7/31/2014 21:24 PM

I just hear so many people say that they are reconciled but not fully recovered or the other way around...

It's confusing to me...but what you said made sense. I guess we are reconciling and recovering still. Just so difficult to figure out just what stage we're in.

Giving time time is proving to be difficult...

Hugs and thanks!

[This message edited by Reallyscared at 9:25 PM, July 31st (Thursday)]

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