I am trying to understand, why the separation? Why not set an ultimatum to keep the marriage that she cheated on. Set your rules and guidelines that she needs to accept to keep you.
In my opinion, separation almost never solves anything as with reconciliation or getting the WS to see the error of their ways... it can in specific situations but not many.
[This message edited by atreides at 8:45 PM, July 31st (Thursday)]