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funnyguy posted 8/1/2014 09:40 AM

Well it has been almost 1 week of our 30 day trial separation , All I can tell you so far is that I think the time I have had to think and be alone so far has been great. I am starting to believe that I will never get over her affair. I think long and hard about it, and the whole thing makes me so sick. My DDay was 11/25/2013 and we have zero progress. We have been splitting the kids up and the time we share with them. But I tell you the longer she has been gone I can't even look at her now , its really weird. I am starting to feel so much discuss in her. She wanted this space thing allot more than me , but now that I have it and the time I need to think its been ok. I read a great quote the other day and it said( If you are in love with 2 people choose the second one because you could have never been in love with the first one.) This quote made me realize allot, and I think its so true. This is gonna be a tough weekend being alone and its a long weekend also. It also seems like I can't stop thinking of her and him being together and all the things they shared. the sexual part I not sure I can even pass that.

[This message edited by funnyguy at 10:05 AM, August 1st (Friday)]

jjct posted 8/1/2014 10:02 AM

Sending positive thoughts & strength your way.

A twist on that saying comes to mind...

When you're M'd, you should be in love with 2 people: you and your spouse - when they cheat and leave, without any sign of remorse, pick the first one - you!

funnyguy posted 8/1/2014 10:06 AM

Thanks JJCT

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