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Betrayeduk posted 8/1/2014 12:55 PM
Went away for the weekend. WH initiated physical stuff and I resisted. He didn't like that. But it's ok to reject me. Felt kind of good trying to stand fast.
NeverAgain2013 posted 8/1/2014 12:57 PM
Awww, he didn't like it?
Ain't that just too bad. 
[This message edited by NeverAgain2013 at 12:58 PM, August 1st (Friday)]
steppingup posted 8/1/2014 13:00 PM
I think the BS resisting is very understanding. As a BS myself, I find it much harder when the WS resists. WTF? I'm not good enough? Whatever!!!!!!! 
Betrayeduk posted 8/1/2014 14:07 PM
I find it hard when he rejects me. I find it hard to reject him when he actually shows interest. But I decided that I can't respond to him when he wants it. It's not just about him. He needs to know how it feels. Or maybe I'm just a bitch lol 😀