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Betrayeduk
♀ 43630
Member # 43630

Posted: 12:55 PM, August 1st (Friday), 2014

Went away for the weekend. WH initiated physical stuff and I resisted. He didn't like that. But it's ok to reject me. Felt kind of good trying to stand fast.

Posts: 61 | Registered: Jun 2014

NeverAgain2013
♀ 38121
Member # 38121

Posted: 12:57 PM, August 1st (Friday), 2014

Awww, he didn't like it?

Ain't that just too bad.

[This message edited by NeverAgain2013 at 12:58 PM, August 1st (Friday)]

Be careful - that 'knight in shining armor' may very well be nothing more than an assclown wrapped in tin foil.
ME: 50+ years old and cute as a button :-)
Ex-WBF: Just a lying, cheating, gravy-sucking pig - and I left him in 2012.

Posts: 2375 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: USA

steppingup
♂ 42650
Member # 42650

Posted: 1:00 PM, August 1st (Friday), 2014

I think the BS resisting is very understanding. As a BS myself, I find it much harder when the WS resists. WTF? I'm not good enough? Whatever!!!!!!!

Her (WW 40s) Me (BH, 40s) very young DS & DD

An excellent wife is the crown of her husband, but she who brings shame is like rottenness in his bones (Proverbs 12:4)

Posts: 1049 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: CALI

Betrayeduk
♀ 43630
Member # 43630

Posted: 2:07 PM, August 1st (Friday), 2014

I find it hard when he rejects me. I find it hard to reject him when he actually shows interest. But I decided that I can't respond to him when he wants it. It's not just about him. He needs to know how it feels. Or maybe I'm just a bitch lol 😀

Posts: 61 | Registered: Jun 2014

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