My period is due, I know PMS is doing a number on me but I've also had a rough week for triggers etc. I can't stop thinking about the email the OW sent me way back in response to my NC email. She accused me of lying about the state of my marriage during the A (still sleeping together, etc) implied that he was only here for the kids and that SHE finished with him (I know this is not true but when he told her he didn't really love her or want to be with her and it was over she went nuts and basically turned it around and called him all kinds of names and told him to fuck off and die basically. I can only assume this is her deluded mind convincing herself that SHE finished it). She said I wouldn't want to hear the whole 'truth'.
She blamed me for being a terrible wife and mother and that's why he cheated and accused me of being and saying all kinds of untrue things. Oh and I'm stupid (not sure what exactly for, I think she meant for not knowing what was going on, or maybe for 'keeping' him)
She was completely unremorseful and horrible and this from a woman who a) doesn't know and hasn't met me and b) has been a BW herself.
Anyway I bit my tongue really hard and did not respond but I so, so, so wanted to. The concept of anyone being so heartless is completely alien to me and I struggle to get my head round it. I know it would just escalate if I had responded because she doesn't care about what she has done, she's just pissed because she 'lost'. She showed her true colours in that email (even FWH was shocked by it) and I retained the moral highground with my silence.
Back to my point. The thought of her having no consequences and not giving a shit about the damage she has helped to do is eating me up!!! I want her to feel pain!! I want to message all of her FB friends and tell them the truth about what she has done and who she really is!! I have her number in my phone and I can see when she is online on whatsapp etc and I want to bombard her with abuse!!! I'm so tempted right now!!
I feel possessed!! This is not me at all but it is so unfair. She would have taken everything from me if she could, I'm suffering, my FWH is suffering, so why isn't she????
I think I'm losing my mind. Help :(